They all have different personalities. Hannah loves to be petted, but she will absolutely not sit next to me or on my lap. The second I’m done petting she’s off to another activity. I just appreciate that she does like to be petted and let her do her own thing when she wants. She has a lot of energy and just isn’t the type of rabbit to flop next to you (or flop at all) when she can be out doing something. She’s so entertaining though and I love watching her explore.
Otto will now sit on my lap on the couch for about 10min, but only because I trained him to do that by feeding him pellets while he’s up there (I’ve decreased the amount of treats and increased the amount of time he sticks around). He’ll also lick my nose every couple of minutes, but once again it’s because I trained him to do that. I have no problem with buying his love! Haha. He’s going to be 3 years old in a month and he just started doing this recently – things with rabbits take time! It’s really a relationship that will evolve over the rabbit’s entire life as long as you continue to spend time with them and work to build a bond. It was hard for me at times when Otto just didn’t want anything to do with me (I’d say that phase has been at least 2 out of his 3 years, on and off) but I loved him for who he was and rejoiced when he showed little signs of wanting to build a bond with me. Clicker training him really opened him up – he learned that I was a source of fun things instead of someone who just wanted to pet him and bother him all the time and I think that was the beginning of us starting to bond. Finding an activity you can do with your no-touchy rabbit really can make a difference.
You really have to spend a lot of time with an aloof rabbit to keep building that bond. I don’t have any other pets or kids, so I spend a lot of time just interacting with them and having them near me. If I had let Otto just do his own thing he’d be as aloof now as he was a couple years ago.