Hi! Willow here, I am deffinetly not an expert, but I do have a few tips for you. Maybe try to bond with her in a different room than where her cage is. From what I hear, it sounds like she’s being territorial. I would also recommend getting her spayed, this should help a lot with the bonding process. I too have a very feisty rabbit, so I’ll share how I bonded with him. First I took him out of his cage too free roam, and I slayed on the floor he came up to me several times… something I learned is do NOT pet them the first time you do this. I continued this for about 2-3 days until I felt that he was getting used to me. The second thing I did, was while he was free-roaming I put his veggies all over me. If he hopped on top of me, I would pet him. after a little while of doing this, I started to sit up and have the food in my lap. Now I have the cuddliest rabbit ever! But something I did notice, was that he started to be a lot calmer after he was fixed. I hope that this helps you out a bit! But just keep in mind, not every rabbit will love to be held, pet, or even sat with.