First, be sure to read through the Bunny Info., Monthly Maintenance section for any tips you may have missed. Sounds like you have since you’ve used the flashlight, though.
Next, at the top of the Forum Q&A section, there are two pinned posts about finding a rabbit savvy vet. I used to live in MA, and there may be a good one just north or west of the city, but you want to look in your phone book locally for those vets listed under Exotics if you don’t find one via the links in those posts.
Finally, my tried and true method is called “Press, press, clip”. You hold the nail between the clippers and press down, but DO NOT snip the first time. Do this twice in a row. (Say it out loud each time.) The third time, you clip the nail, keeping the clippers on the same spot each time. What happens is: if you touch the quick, your bunny will pull their paw away. Let him. It means you’ve touched the quick. Get back into position and press at a point closer to the tip of the nail. Press, press, clip if your bunny holds still. The wiggling to be free from your hold (try a bunny burrito) is different from jerking his paw away. This usually prevents you cutting the quick, and you can continue. Have plain corn starch next to you to stop the bleeding if you do cut him. I wouldn’t like a vet that caused him to “bleed a little” either.
My bunny puts up a fight when I go to catch her for a trim, but afterwards she clearly loves having her nails down, so just have that treat handy for when you finish and keep trying. It’s better to find a vet that can show you how, and do it with practice, then to have to pay for it every time. But sometimes, if you must, you must.