So I’m about to call the vet to schedule Bunjamin’s pre-op appointment for his neuter (idk if they usually do this but I’m going to insist so I can ask a ton of questions and get him re-weighed and stuff). Anyway, I’m having doubts. I’ve heard so many bad stories about Buns passing away during surgery and since there’s no immediate need to get him fixed I’m starting to feel like I’m doing it just for me. Meaning he isn’t out of control behavior wise, he doesn’t spray (knock on wood), and we can’t get another bun anytime soon so there’s no immediate need for the surgery.
Basically I feel like the only reason I’m getting him fixed is because I know I should so I need some encouragement before I call to make me brave again 
Whats my pros and cons? I mean the only thing he does behavior wise is occassionally chew carpet but we watch him like hawks (oh bad saying in this case) and don’t allow him to do to the best of our ability.
I don’t really want his personality to change or for him to hate me for taking away his manhood (that’s what my family jokes about). But he held a grudge yesterday for half a day just for me trimming his nails. But I love his quirky personality and how I can predict when he’s going to do something, etc.
Any advice will be appreciated.