Boo was abandoned outside in a high traffic area when he was when, around 3-4 months of age. When I took him outside on a leash with a snug harness, he cowered next to/on my feet, and once I kept down, he immediately wanted up. I had never need him so terrified, so I took him inside pretty fast. Boo is afraid of large animals and unexpected loud noises, like many rabbits. He usually has a big attitude and will not hesitate to ignore me or thump his feet at me if I do something displeasing, and will often tease me. I saw none of his attitude when I took him out, though, and not for a little while after I brought him back in. It’s pretty obvious that being abandoned was traumatizing for him, but I’m not sure if it’s just that being out by himself was scary when he was just a kit, or if he’s terrified I’ll abandon him. I don’t want to stress him out by forcing him to be outside, but I really, really don’t want him to be afraid of it forever,either. Is there something I could try to make him feel safer being outside? Dahlia, my female, absolutely adores being outside and I’d like to take them out together once they’re bonded. However, if it’ll cause him too much stress and potentially harm him, I won’t try. I just want him to feel safe and happy, both inside and outside.
As for Dahlia- she’s terrified of being picked up. She loves to cuddle and be held, but the act of being picked up scares her. She’s on the small side for a rabbit, somewhere between a dwarf and lionhead, I think, and I’m kinda tall. Could it just be the distance from the ground to my chest that scares her? Will it be something that gets better the more she trusts me? She doesn’t seem to be all that attached to me, not the way Boo is. Boo trusts me completely and isn’t scared at all when I pick him up, no matter how I do it. He knows that once I lift him, he’ll go directly to my chest and safely back down a little while later. Is this just something she’ll always be afraid of?