It’s a hard choice, I’m stressing about it, I wish there was 2 of me so I could keep everyone happy.
I do feel guilty though. I pleaded with my mum to not make the holiday so long, but she has already booked it. And I could tell I upset her when I asked. She just wants to spend as much time as possible with her eldest daughter, because like I said we don’t see much of each other.
Yeah I definitely don’t want to move her. At least here she has her cat boyfriend as well, though he’s not always with her, I suppose my housemate can get the cat at any time and bring him to her. Whether the cat wants to or not lol. It would keep her happier.
I thought about recording my voice, saying the normal things i would say to her, so he could play it back to her. But then I had the same thought, would that just confuse her? Or would she even think I’m somewhere in the house but I’m ignoring her? Which would probably upset her more. I don’t know