Awe so sorry for your loss. When Sally’s brother died she too did an odd panic. Darting around her cage and thumping a lot. She seemed terrified being alone. Her brother was the social one and she was shy. So I think she relied heavily on him for comfort. But she came around again pretty soon after that. And without her brother to comfort her, she seemed to rely on us more for her comfort. Which was nice because before that we couldn’t touch her. And now she’s very happy again with Harley. She seemed to bond to Harley really fast (love at first sight bonding) I think she missed having another bun around for comfort and company.
Sally didn’t get to say goodbye to her brother. But I think she knew he was sick. I think she might have reacted better knowing he was in fact dead and not just suddenly disappeared. But I didn’t think it at the time. I thought I was protecting her removing her sick brother from the cage to dye a ‘peaceful’ death in my lap. I didn’t want her seeing it. But she probably would’ve liked the closure.
Again I’m so sorry for your loss. I think you did the right thing. Binky free Arla.