With small breeds, most vets will neuter makes from 4 months old, as long as their testicles have appeared. If your rabbit is small at 4 months, then I would wait a bit longer – it’s always safer to operate on a larger rabbit, I think over a kilo is preferred, but my vet said one of mine would probably never be over a kilo so 800grams was what she’d aim for.
With big breeds, they continue growing for longer, so it’s better to wait until they’re a bit older as apparently the hormones help them to grow strong bones.
Sexual behaviours include spraying, humping, honking and grunting, but some rabbits don’t display these.
Basically, as long as their testicles have appeared, they’re over 4 months old and weigh over a kilo, they should be good to go.
Edit: I see he’s a French lop, which is a bigger breed, so it’s probably worth you waiting a bit longer. Could you call your vet and ask when they would advise without you bringing him in?