When I first got my Henry as a 9 week old baby bunny I had big dreams of nursing and cuddling him for every hour of my waking day. Not having met BB (and not knowing anything about bunnies even though I ‘thought’ I did?) I just assumed if I picked him up and nursed him he would be ‘all good’ with it and would learn and get used to being held – NOT! I couldn’t approach him – Henry ran away. If I wanted to pick him up, the chase was on, and I was always covered in scratches if I succeeded. Then I met and became a BBer and realised after reading (I love reading everyone forums) that 80% of BBer bun’s don’t like to be picked up or held. And the bunny’s that do, I’M JEALOUS! ha ha ha….
I have learned it has nothing to do with breed, nor what age you got your bunny, where you got it from or how you raise them – it is the bunny’s individual personality. Some (lots) bunnies just don’t like it. I stopped picking Henry up completely and was amazed that within weeks I could approach him and pat him. A year on, I only pick Henry up if I ‘need’ to (for a birthday photo, he he hehe he….) and even though HE still doesn’t like it (and I know he doesn’t) – I no longer get torn to shreds, nor do I have to chase him cause he lets me approach him. And I only get snubbed for a day or 2 till he gets over it, lol! Henry and I love each other ‘cuddle free’……
I know there are occasions when you HAVE to, like us putting Henry outside (in a hutch) for an indoor pest spray – and honestly, if you HAVE to, you just do it no matter the consequences. But after having Henry for a year now, he is more tolerant of being picked up but I don’t take advantage of it – I still only do it if I need too.
I am not suggesting your bun is anything like my Henry, I just thought I’d share my story with you on the chance (Quincey?) shows simular behaviour and if what I shared helps you both. As Michelle said (previous post) – Good Luck and cheers.