Hello, congrats on your new bunny
So, let’s go by order:
1) Did he get more aggressive after the neuter or was he on the sassy side even before that? As you’ve said yourself it may be an hormonal spike, but it also may be due to your brother not approaching him correctly, how old is he?
For example buns don’t like hands that suddenly appear from the front of their faces (blind spot) or from high up to their back (predators). I think he should try to bond (or re-bond) with the bun by sitting down on the floor with him and let him smell him and get used again to his person, so that in case the bun thinks he’s a menace to himself or to his territory he can change his mind.
2) Bunnies chew, you need to get used to this. Nothing survives their teeth and wood is good to keep their teeth filed down, so he will keep chewing. You could offer him a plastic hutch and some chew-sticks (generally they like apple sticks very much, for example). Don’t use tape or whatever, cause if he eats it stuff can go very bad very soon. If at night he’s closed up in his cage he might be making noise to be let out, which can be improved by keeping him out or attaching a removable pen to his cage, so that he can have some more room.
If even with all of this he keeps being a noise maker at night, it could be an idea to relocate his enclosure + pen to another room and then get him back in during the day. If you’re not sleeping due to his habits, I’m sure your parents will understand, or at least keep an eye closed until his hormones are out and he’s calmer.
3) That’s most likely hormonal, use the vinegar to keep his stuff clean and wipe away the pungent smell and be patient.
If he’s not interested in toys, you can offer him a dig box (can find some examples in the habitat & toys section) or wiggle the chewing toys under his nose. If stimulated enough he may play with them, with you ^^