Hello! I am glad you looked up videos on this, I do think that they are very helpful. I would work up to nail trims by working on handling your bunnies more and getting them used to being touched everywhere. They may not like this at first, but with time they will learn that you are not someone to be feared and will relax enough for you to clip nails. Work on touching their paws so that this is not foreign to them when you want to trim nails. It also doesn’t hurt to wait a while longer before you trim if that time is needed to build up their trust in you.
It does help to have someone hold them while you trim, like your husband has done. If he has trouble holding the bunnies, try the bunny burrito method.
Also, if you are nervous, then your buns will pick up on this and be nervous too. I know that it is easier said than done, I definitely struggle to not become nervous with nail trims. But, if I take a few deep breaths before I start I find that it really helps everyone. With time you will also become more confident in your ability to trim nails. There is nothing wrong with taking some time master something.
With that being said, I cannot make it through an entire nail trimming session without my buns kicking. When they start to get upset I set them down and hold them there while I pet them. I will do this for about 30 seconds before I continue. If they try to run away I will continue to love on them until they calm down. Something I have found that helps is to give them a chewy treat, like dried papaya or banana, right before I clip. This will distract them long enough for you to get a few nails clipped before they finish eating.
Good luck!