First off, sorry for the long absence. Big move – long story!
So two big bits of news- Merlin has been neutered – yay! Secondly – I am in the middle of bonding him with a lovely female called Luna- Double yay!
The thing is, after lots of bonding attempts and all that, I noticed today that Merlin was suffering from wet bunny bum, despite how good he is normally with staying clean and his bathroom efforts. I didn’t know if it was a bathroom thing or to do with meeting Luna and lots of hormones, despite the fact its been a month since he was de-sexed. Either way, I knew since it was summer and fly season, it was a good idea to clean him up. I ran a bowl full of warm water and got a gentle cloth, and between the boyfriend and I, eventually managed to hold him and i was able to swab his bum.
A few questions – One; after the initial struggling (LIKE HECK- he hates being manhandled, something to do with being a rescue I think) he just suddenly went all still and lay there all accepting, even after we finished and let go he just lay there. Was he playing possum, to get away from the mad humans and their washcloth? or have I accidentally traumatised my beloved Merlin?! He’s under the bed loafing now but is not talking to ANY of us. 
Secondly, the wet butt – any theories? Bathroom habits or sexual fluids? Any comments on butt baths are welcome!