Thanks to everyone who picked up on my tale of woe with Barney via Dawn and Luey’s thread on aggressive buns.
My daughters rabbits are about 7 months old now and Barney has always been top bun and apart from a two week spell about two weeks after castrating Barney has always been very territorial. For those two weeks I really thought his hormones had settled and things would be OK – but no – Barney has once again after two unprovoked attacks turned into Mr Hyde when I am around. These are not nips but serious bites – I have a nice U shaped scar under where my wedding ring sits. For herbivores Barney sure likes the taste of blood!!!!
I have tried to counteract this by not reacting when he bites but this is not easy when he is hanging off your finger! and by continuing to make friendly overtures. I suspect he despises any attempt at friendliness from me!
I have not tried pushing his head down as I did read somewhere that rabbits lower their head to be groomed by another rabbit and this is a sign of dominance and I do see him pushing his lowered head under Herbie to be washed. Poor Herb is a real softie but gets the aggression if Barney can’t get at me so I hate to do anything to antagonise Barney to protect Herb. They are normally fine together it seems Barney really dislikes me near him or Herbie or doing anything within ‘his space’.
As far as my daughter goes she can do anything with Barney and he doesn’t bat an eyelid and whilst this is the case I am happy to give Barney a wide berth as much as possible. Louise has no qualms about holding Barney in a dominant hold and I guess that is why she is top bunny. Me – I won’t even pick him up now – I am scared and he knows it. You are right, he shouldn’t be allowed to terrorise us – I am obviously bottom of the pecking order, and I wish I could believe that he will mellow with time but I suspect not.
Thanks for the flower essence suggestion, I have just bought some of the Bach Rescue Remedy and Barney has been on this for three days – no improvement yet. I will also try the thick glove/water bottle approach and see if this changes his behaviour
I do suspect however ( and Barney does seem very smart ) that this is his bloody minded nature coming to the fore and I have to accept him and his little foibles!!! A shame however as I would love to love him!
Thanks for all the input
Vanessa.