My resident bonded pair normally fight; it’s just normal for them and here’s always at least a little fur flying. Once or twice a year it can get really bad. They also do chases and crash into things most mornings and usually there’s fur flying during this too. Usually Baozi will chase Mantou and nip him in the back during the chase. Mantou eventually needs a break and Baozi will either continue another round on her own or also take a break right beside Mantou. Sometimes they go for another round or two.
These two have a special relationship and have never been the cuddling pair; they just sit closely side by side. Baozi knows Mantou loves his food and will lunge at it so she has to get out of the way or face a slap; Mantou knows that Baozi gets scared easily and he may be slapped if he accidentally startles her. Baozi will also grunt/growl during the chases and she also does this during the first few mins of nose rubs as well as after when she’s had enough nose rubs.
I got NewBun a few weeks ago. How do I know what’s normal in terms of fights/chases/etc when it comes to this new member? When there’s large amount of fur flying and aggression from both sides, I knew it was bad and they were not ready. It’s died down but Baozi will chase NewBun and nip. NewBun is really fluffy and has a kilt so he’s naturally protected a bit. When Baozi and NewBun have the x-pen between then, sometimes Baozi will stick her nose/mouth in between the bars to nip NewBun’s kilt. When I leave both sections open, it’s completely random which pen I catch them in (2 of the 3 together or all three together). I also hear grunts/growls frequently from Baozi. At the same time, I’ve seen Baozi and NewBun running side by side, investigating things side by side, as well as grooming each other, rare but has happened. Two of these three things Mantou is not interested so it makes Baozi really happy to have somebun to do these things with.