My rabbit did that as well at that age. I haven’t gotten her spayed, but the behavior vanished. One thing I recommend is having confidence in your actions. If you are going to pick her up, don’t let her scare you. Just swoop her up and hold her firmly.
A good exercise you can do, when she’s on the ground, is to pet her a bit more firmly than usual. Also, cover her eyes, then hold her entire body in place. Cover as much of it as you can with your arms and body. She will most likely try to get away. Don’t let her, unless you think she might hurt herself. After she stops resisting, release her completely and walk away. This shows her that you are the boss, and your are not going to hurt her. If she doesn’t resist at all, give her a treat.
If she’s scratching with her paws, then you need to approach her from the top. Pet the top top of her head and backwards. Eventually she will grow out of this behavior, but starting this “therapy” as soon as possible will be a good bonding experience for the both of you.
Good luck!