Hi Kayla, Firstly, here’s the link to the bondong info on this site. That should answer some of your questions.https://www.binkybunny.com/BUNNYINFO/Bondin…fault.aspx
I’ll try answer some of your others…
It’s great you’re preparing youself so well!
Rabbit rescues are a great way to go because some offer bunny dating so you can take Lily there to meet some of the bunnies and see who she likes. You may be really lucky & find she and a bunny just click and that’s that! A rabbit choosing it’s own friend will make the bonding go much easier most times. Also, some places offer a bonding service so if room or time at home is a problem, that’s an option that might work for you.
Also, once they are bonded, can they be housed together.
They should be. Bonded rabbits should stay together always. It can stress them when their mate is not there. Prior to bonding they are housed separate so maybe you could put a divider down Lily’s pen?
Can I get a fixed male to be with my fixed female or do they both need to be females?
Male to female bonds are said to be the easiest but it’s not limited to this. It really depends on who the rabbit chooses.
How long does it usually take to bond them?
This is variable! It can be instant, 1 week, 2, 3,4, up to several months. My own pair took exactly 30 days. Alot depends on the individual rabbits and the time you can put in to bonding sessions.
Hopefully, the bonding info page will cover some of your other qu’s. If not, ask away.