I’m about 28 hours into the bonding session with only one fight where I separated my boys for about 30 minutes to cool down. They’ve gone about 7 hours since that fight so if all goes well for their second night, I’m calling them bonded!
This is our second bonding session, the first one happening about 2-3 months ago and ended horribly after 33 hours (I’ve adjusted a lot this time around and it’s going much better). I have a lot of apprehension after that terrible experience and am really nervous about leaving them home alone for the first time (I potentially developed a hint of PTSD after breaking up their fight at the last bonding session).
How did you feel confident leaving a newly bonded pair home alone the first time?
It’s currently Tuesday evening and I don’t have anything I need to be at until Friday afternoon so can ride out the next few days and hope for no more big fights.
Any advice in feeling comfortable the first time? I’ll probably have a video on so I can watch them and I know in time I’ll relax but any words of encouragement or insight would be greatly appreciated!