I do not pick up Wick for nail trimming. I have a small square fabric piece that I lay down and that becomes the “business” area for Wick — grooming, trimming, medications, etc.. So I lay that down and he sits on top of it. I sit behind him and pet him down into a loaf (not sitting). I’m left-handed, so for his left paw, I put my right hand between his face and his left paw (back of hand facing his face) and lift up the paw, then clip it with my left-hand. What’s nice about this is Wick can’t really turn his head to bite my hand very easily, since it’s so close and the way it’s oriented. I do the same thing to the other side.
It can be extremely stressful to clip a rabbits nails, especially when you see instances where other people’s rabbits are angels during it…. definitely not the majority! You’re in good company.
Is your rabbit immediately squeamish when his paws are touched? If so, it may be good to just do some exposure training, where you briefly pick up a front paw (as if you’d clip it), but then put it down — so that sensation becomes more normalized.
The answers provided in this discussion are for general guideline purposes only. The information is not intended to diagnose or treat your pet. Seek the advice of your veterinarian or a qualified behaviorist.