Hi okay to answer all the questions!!
Thanks Spacehopper at least I’m not alone!
Okay so:
Yes we will definately be spaying Tigerlily next month when she is old enough, we don’t agree with not fixing pets, but I’m glad that the hormones aren’t bothering Smudge in any way.
I talked to the vet about introducing the Tigerlily when I was there because we hadn’t gotten her yet, the vet did warn me that a loss in litter box habits would probably occur with the introduction of a new pet (like when we got out dog Pepper last year).
Tigerlily and Louis get along great, Louis is the most layed back cat in the entire world so nothing phases him he has no interest really in Pepper Tigerlily or Smudge lol.
Tigerlily and Pepper however had to be supervised, when we first got her they were seperated for whatever reason even though Pepper had been around cats before the two of them rough housed just a little too rough (they both gave as good as they got though lol). Now they are out together all the time and get along fine but they do chase each other and still play ALL DAY I wonder if this chasing and activity is cause Smudge to feel threatened?
Tigerlily does show an interest in Smudge, the first week she was here she jumped into the cage/play pen while we were all sitting in the room with her (we since corrected this so she can’t get in anymore). She likes to lay right next to Smudge’s cage and pen although Smudge will also flop next to her and periscope to see her when she walks by so it doesn’t seem like either are afraid of the other
Smudge has a condo in our kitchen, she comes out to the living room to play in her playpen and is never left unsupervised with any of the pets. She has a box to I’ve made if she feels the need to be out of sight even though the kitten can’t get into the pen anymore. She also gets to come into my room for free run with just me often. We haven’t done any forced intros I wouldn’t want to stress anyone out, I just let them meet on their own terms with me standing reading to intervene if need be.
I hope that answers all of them! Thanks so much KatnipCrzy for taking the time to help. On the plus side today Smudge had no pee accidents at all (she’s only been having a couple a week anyways but I haven’t seen one since last thursday) and there were only a few poos in her little bed and everything else seemed to be in the box. Maybe this means she is adjusting? hahah she would start to adjust the same time I ask for help….. bunnies!