My 2 y.o. neutered male lop and I have been moving around quite a bit lately. In apartment 1, I had a mattress on the ground which he never even came close to. He pooped almost exclusively in his litter box, but peed on the rug a couple times a week. In apartment 2, he loved hopping up on my bed. He peed on the bed quite a bit, then stopped, then started up again all on his own. All poops still in the litter box. Now we’re in apartment 3 and he loves hanging out on the bed and cuddling. Everything was great for a day or two after moving in, and then he suddenly started pooping on the bed. Not a stray poop here and there, but whole bunches. I left for a day and a half (don’t worry, he was fed!) and came back to 50+ poops on my bed and a couple of fresh pee stains.
What is happening?! And what can I do? I can’t block off access to the bed because he lives in my bedroom and doesn’t have a cage. I tried asserting my dominance by gently pushing down on him but that didn’t change the behavior. More recently I’ve been removing him from the bed when it happens, but he hates being picked up so now he’s just angry and scared of me.
Please help us enjoy cuddles in bed again!