Hello, all, my name is Faith! I am a brand new member and have decided to create this account to help me work through a series of troubling events as the subject matter of this post entails. I have browsed the Binkybunny site briefly and am amazed at the willingness of its members to help other pet owners in need, it’s so lovely to see. I only hope I will be able to articulate myself properly so that someone may be able to provide me with answers. (I’m writing this in a bit of a hurry so I apologize if the post seems extensive and rant-y) 
A run-down of the events:
My family was at a part at my aunt’s house and my uncle recalled seeing a white bunny in the backyard earlier that day with floppy ears. Definitely unusual, so I thought we could be dealing with an escaped pet. The bunny showed up again later that evening and I immediately recognized it as a Holland Lop. Knowing it shouldn’t be outdoors unattended seeing as it is a domestic breed, my uncle caught it with a laundry basket. Taking a closer look, my sis suddenly recognized the bunny as belonging to my aunt’s neighbor’s young daughter. Going on Instagram, she shows us a pic of the exact same white rabbit (with spots of light brown) and a black Holland Lop. The caption read ‘Just found out my mom let my rabbits go’
. We decided to approach the neighbors to try and return the rabbit to them but the mom acted strangely. She repetitively said in whispered tones “Those aren’t our rabbits, I’ve seen them in our backyard too but we have our rabbits.” Her kids were watching the interaction, and her body language seemed to say”yeah those are our bunnies and I did let them go but I don’t want the kids to know”.
After relentless begging by my siblings and I to keep the bunny (dubbed Heshe and depicted in my profile pic
) & our parents’ adamant refusals, my aunt and uncle decided to care for the bunny until they could find her a good home.
What should I do?
For the past few days I’ve been worrying about the black bunny’s whereabouts. It is truly upsetting that for whatever reason the mother let the bunnies go, she did not think to at least find them good homes. A quick Google search would reveal that domestic breeds such as the Holland Lop are not meant to be released into the wild. Chances of survival are very, very slim especially considering the Holland Lop’s distinction as an exotic breed. Domesticated rabbits depend on their human caretaker to feed them and provide a stable environment for the rabbits to thrive in. Black and white bunnies such as these would stick out like a sore thumb to predators in the wild…. Anyway my question is whether or not I should confront the mom again about the situation. This time I’ll be upfront with her and that I know what her bunnies look like (I may need to phrase that one carefully lol). The downside of this is that it might cause a bit of tension. 
Giving Heshe to Petting Farm/Zoo – Good Idea or Bad Idea?
To my distress, my aunt and uncle have decided to give Heshe away to a petting farm located 2 hours away. (I will find out the name of the place ASAP) I am so upset at the prospect of giving Heshe away and it breaks my heart that my family cannot keep Heshe. (I’ve also been researching a ton these past days on ways to get around my dad’s dander allergy so advice on this would also be appreciated!!!) Especially since Heshe has been getting more comfortable in the space they’ve given him/her and less jumpy and nervous when we approach. I’ve read up on a bunny’s emotional needs, and I feel ‘mean’ for having to break the trust he’s built up and have Heshe transfer homes again. 
But I want to put the bunny’s needs first before my feelings, so do you guys think that placing him in a pet zoo would increase Heshe’s happiness where there’s a bunch of other bunnies that Heshe can interact with since his old pal isn’t around?
Everyone who takes the time to read this extremely tedious post and responds, thanks in advance. Any feedback is much appreciated!
***I refer to Heshe as a him/her because we are unsure of its sex. By its mannerisms we believe its a girl!
xx Faith xx