So many of you have seen Gandalf’s teeth journey in the health section – he is my foster to adopt who came in as an older rabbit with horrible teeth that had to be trimmed weekly until he could have them removed. And Ginny was part of a litter of three I fostered until desexing. But after that because she was separated from her brothers she became very depressed and lost a lot of weight so I took her back home for foster again. I put her pen next to Gandalf’s which really cheered her up – her whole outlook on life instantly changed. For a couple of weeks I have just had them next to each other where they can see (and then touch) each other. Ginny was a little passive aggressive (she is so much happier than Gandalf, just so everyone knows!) but other than that they started napping as close as they could to each other, grooming at the same time next to each other, and bringing their food right up to the bars to eat next to each other (and so Ginny could pull Gandalf’s hay through the bars to eat).
I swapped toys over a couple of times but not litter trays. I did a play date a few days ago where they were just on the couch with me and I gave them both pats until Gandalf fell asleep (he does that easily with pats). Then a couple of days ago they had a play date just outside their play pens in the living room area. There were a couple of tiny scuffles then they just pretended to ignore each other but were actually flopped only 10cm away from each other. They stayed out supervised for nearly an hour.
Then today I wanted to do a big clean of their area so they had another supervised play date that just became a marathon bonding. They spent a lot of time doing the whole “you groom me” “no you groom me” thing. They explored the room together a lot. They both got angry at a cushion together because it was in their way. So when I finished cleaning I set up one large playpen instead of two. I gave them the bigger litter tray in a different corner, with a fresh blanket, a different tunnel (the advantage of being a foster carer, I have lots of stuff now!) and fresh food and water. They have been in there for I think 3 hours now with lots of shared eating, flopping together, napping together in the tunnel, etc. Not sure about grooming each other but they groom themselves cuddled up together. I’m not fussed about the lack of grooming – I have known Ginny since she was a baby and she has never been much of a groomer even with her brothers that she was really attached to.
So I won’t called them officially bonded yet, but I think we are winning. They will stay together tonight with me pretty much staying up with them to do regular checks. I have found marathon bonding really successful in the past.
Once I have officially adopted them (Gandalf just needs a final vet check on his teeth and Ginny will need to be vet cleared because she is in foster for her depression) I will let them stay just as a couple for a while. Then eventually I will bond them to my group of four so I have a group of 6 free range around the house. I think that will be interesting – Terry and Ginny are both quite passive aggressive so I may get a lot of “I’m happier” “NO I’M HAPPIER GOSH!!”
Now that I have given everyone a small essay to read, I will share a couple of photos in my next post.
P.S. Gandalf and Ginny met my two foster kittens today. So I have a really cute photo of that to share as well.