Hello, I am the owner of two male rabbits, Oreo and Ben, whom I have been trying to bond for around 2 or 3 weeks. They have both been fixed for at least 6 weeks and I did pre-bonding with them for about a week. At this point in their relationship, they are much better than when I saw them together at first, however there are a couple of issues I have seen present since the start of their bonding and I have no idea of how to “fix” them or if the issues are even supposed to be fixed at all. Anyway, that is the purpose of this topic: Oreo won’t stop spraying Ben when they are together and Ben has a little bit of a trust issue with Oreo(Ben won’t let Oreo smell his back even though he doesn’t intend any sort of harm).
Despite the fact that most online sources tell me that rabbits will stay hormonal for an average maximum of 4-6 weeks after surgery, Oreo still seems to still be pretty territorially driven as he will not hesitate to spray Ben several times during their time together which gets annoying to both Ben, who’s fur is always soaked with urine and for me because I have to be cleaning too oftenly. I have seen websites talking about habitual spraying when rabbits are fixed a little late in their lives, although I am hoping this is not the case because Oreo is only two years old and habitual spraying would be a big issue for their bond. But, what confuses me is that even though Oreo seems to be territorial with all his spraying and territorial pooping, he has not shown any signs of physical aggression towards Ben. Oreo has even been the one to be showing especially positive behaviors, most notably being when Oreo decides to groom Ben in short, 5 second periods multiple times in a bonding session.
Because of Oreo’s territorial, but non-aggressive and somewhat peaceful behavior around Ben, I decided to put them both in a mostly neutral cage together and separate them if it was to become necessary. Initially, Ben was a little annoyed of sharing his previous territory with Oreo and was a little more prone to nipping than usual, but this behavior was pretty much gone after about half an hour and they were both tolerating each other without any fighting past that point. Oreo’s reaction, however, seemed exactly the same as it was previously; he was constantly spraying and grooming Ben and himself at times, flopping occasionally and sleeping next to Ben if he would allow it. Ben usually didn’t have a problem with Oreo coming to sleep or snuggle with him, but that tolerance dissapears pretty quickly when Oreo starts smelling Ben’s backside, as mentioned before(Ben will turn around defensively when this happens). Other than those issues with Oreo’s spraying and Ben’s trust problem, their behaviors generally seem to be pretty positive and actually quite promising. Also, I let them play together in a large play area where I previously let them out one at a time and their behaviors were identical to those in the cage, except that they both did a few binkies and seemed happy playing in the same room, but not together.
For Oreo, should I be waiting a few more weeks under the possibility that he is still hormonal? And for Ben, how can I get him to completely trust Oreo? Anyway, any advice is appreciated. Thanks!