I’m very sorry your bun got EC. It can be a grave disease, as you know, and it’s not known why some buns recover and some buns dont.
In my opinion, a doe that has tested positive for EC should not be bred. The babies have a high likelihood of getting infected in the womb. I dont know if all babies absolutely will become infected, but it is clear that infected does can pass the parasite on to her fetuses in the womb.
EC is quite common, but how common it is, is not fully known, because most buns never display symptoms. Several symptoms are also easily mistaken for something other than EC. EC “attacks” organs with high blood flow, for example the kidneys and the heart, and causes damage there. We most often think of EC as a neuro disease, but it can affect many other organs beside the nervous system, for example the gut.
I dont think female rabbits are more at risk than male rabbits.