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        I have no more excuses to put off bonding Deidra with Lint since Mops did so well with her.  At this point, Lint hates her. Deirdra isn’t as tense as he is, but ten days ago, when I first tried these two, she got in a all-out war with him when she wouldn’t be humped by him… she left a bloody bite mark on his ear. Since then, Lint REALLY hates her, and has shown destructive behaviour in his habitat. He is just so angry.

        The injury on his ear has healed and I did one stress bonding session in two parts. First part, I put them both in my empty kiddy pool with the hose spraying water in one spot for noise and distraction. They got their feet wet and did not fight or interact in any way. Part two, I then transferred them to my new bonding set-up in a corner of my deck where they hadn’t been. I included my very rabbit-friendly dog in the set-up to break up any fights (he can do that). I wanted no blood this time, that was my goal for this session. I don’t recommend anyone using a dog  unless the dog is totally ‘bunny-proof’. 

        I achieved my goal of no blood shed, but I have a long road ahead of me. I can’t imagine these two to make peace… but I know they will.

        I held more sessions after the stress bonding, with and without Mops in the mix. Lint continues to hate Deirdra and will not even try humping (He must recall vividly what she did last time he tried). Deirdra dared trying to hump him, but no way he would allow it.

        Lint is also possessive over Mops. Mops’ relationships with either of the two is virtually unaffected, even though there was some displaced aggression from Lint toward him.

        I think it will take lots of time, lots of bath tub sessions which I’m going to include today.

        this is a video of a session with the trio and no stressors.

        this is of Lint and Deirdra alone which is the most intense situation because nothing distracts them. Lint thinking angry thoughts in his corner…

        Lint here territorial over his designated “I hate Deirdra” corner…

        Deirdra showing nerve, trying to mount Lint

        I am pretty sure this set-up will not give much progress; Lint avoids D or chases her off. I am hoping the bath tub will make a difference.

         


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          I love these videos! It is good to see what similarities we are both having with 3! I just get so scared to “let them be”. I am so worried it will end in a bad fight that Dexter has no chance of winning! The first time I “let them be” I had to hear Dexter scream after Delilah attacked him, which was terrifying!


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            I’m glad i’m not alone… I always have to give myself a little push whenever it’s bonding time as i worry about injuries

            this was Lint’s ear injury from their first meet: (sorry blurry pic)


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              Eek a boo boo! I get so worried about someone getting hurt!


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                I laughed so loud at your dogs “talking” on that 1st video. It’s like they’re umpiring!
                I think the tub should help some as they’ll be forced to interact. Was Lint the more dominant with him and Mops? It’s seems like he views Deirdra is going to take top bunny position and he’s a bit threatened by her. Maybe due to her newness and size? But she kind of just goes about her business – ignoring Lint. From the vids, she doesn’t seem that aggressive toward him. The tub should reveal more.  If it turns out that she’s not overly dominant and allows Lint to be, I think you might be ’home free’. 

                 


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                  Yes, Jerseygirl, I’m pretty sure Lint feels threatened by Deirdra. Lint is a dominant bunny, humpy and dominant. I guess, Mops just puts up with him because Mops is very relaxed, never humps and generally just doesn’t care. Deirdra isn’t as submissive as Mops and in her budding friendship with Mops she is actually humping Mops sometimes. I know she won’t let Lint hump. Lint knows it, too. He doesn’t know how to be with another bun without being the boss…. so he’s kind of in shock…. but he’s smart and social and I hope he will figure out that there are other ways of relating to other rabbits besides humping them into submission!!!

                  I did a bath tub session last night, just Deirdra and Lint– went great in my estimation. They sat together, next to one another, touching,  for the first time without getting in a quarrel.  you can see in the video clip that they were pretty scared, but at least it brought them together.


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                    HAHA I love the treats sitting on their heads!!! Looks like it went well!


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                      I would try petting them both at the same time while they’re in the tub – give them a little reassurance as well as transferring both of their scents to one another. But you definitely want to go with the stress bonding with those two – Lint reminds me of Maryann when I first started bonding.


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                        Good grief. Lint a distant relative to Maryann, maybe? well, I will definitely try transfer of scent. I am very willing to try anything new since today they got in a nasty fight, their second real fight. Things were calm during a session in the patio corner, until Deirdra started to be happpy and to race. Lint chased after her and she got defensive… things went fast and after a cloud of flying fur had settled I saw both buns on their sides holding each other by a scruff of hair. I let them settle down, petted them, but then ended the session, on a pretty bad note. I needed to check them over, nobody has any scratches or marks. I’m debating whether or not to have a session in the tub tonight late. I think, they need rest but I don’t want to leave it at the bad note.


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                          oh, I forgot. I also had to upgrade my nippage guards on D’s condo. well, they serve more as ‘boxing guards’  –Lint started boxing at Deirdra at night time again.   I may move one of the buns out of the room for a while if the tub sessions don’t work.


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                            On the patio, you should put up a divider – something to break the straight line of chasing. If you have an x-pen, place it along one of the walls but leave the last two panels sticking out – sort of like using one of those oriental folding screens to turn a studio into a semi one bedroom.


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                              I am looking for a new neutral area  that is much smaller than the patio corner but allows more interacting than the bath tub. I never thought of didviding the patio space, this is worth a try. That way I can also section off the corner that Lint has declared his vantage point of fending off Deirdra.

                              In the meantime, I did more sessions in the tub. At first  I turned the tap on because Lint was biting Deirdra. He stopped. Then he just pouted…

                              I did the scent transfer, too.

                              Lint wasn’t going to bit, he was relaxing a bit and i rubbed his face into Deirdra’s fur.

                              I will look in my basement to set up another contained zone for them, they have never been in the basement. There are different sounds from the laundry room I could use for stressors.


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                                Hmmm, I’ve never seen a bunny sit there like Lint does. I think he was almost daring Deirdra to move so he could nip her. I find that some agressive behaviour is triggered when the other rabbit moves. Maryann was more or less content with Dono as long as he didn’t move. The moment he did though, she’d turn and bite him. But any event that doesn’t end in fur flying is good one.


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                                  I think, Lint is bearing a huge grudge because of the ear injury Deirdra inflicted. It put him in a shock at first, then he progressed to just hate her for it. I let 12 days go by after it had happened, but I can feel from him, when I do the sessiions, that he is not ready to even consider D as anything but a threat to him. she just tolerates her because he’s stuck in the tub.


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                                    I think thats the point Delilah and Dexter are at too. You can see it in their eyes, if you werent there watching….it just looks like theyre uncomfortable and ‘dealing’ with it.


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                                      How do I get to your bonding quest with Maryann? I clicked on the link in your signature but it bounces me to the current forum page.


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                                          You can really see Lint is out of his zone in the neutral bath tub. You always have some stress bonding up your sleeve. Car ride, washer rider etc. Good for after they’ve had a scuffle apparently. When I did tub bonding I popped both in a cardboard box one night to take them to the bathroom. I found this was like a stressor so I stomped around the house carrying them this way for a bit longer. So if you can’t do the car thing – that might be another option.


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                                            I might do a car ride today but I have been rethinking my approach. I think stress bonding is what first stopped the nasty fighting between them but at this point I can see the same behavior that I dealt with when I bonded Lint with Mops. Small space seems to trigger aggression in Lint. So…. I spent yesterday doing a supervised ‘roaming’ bonding on the patio. I had all three, plus my dog and noise from my neighbors weed wacker as a stressor. It went well, First Lint avoided D, but he started moving around and inevitably ran into her. She showed interest in him, which he rejected with posturing but no biting.
                                            I also used clicker training as a resort to avoiding fights; I had done clicker training with Lint when I first fostered him last year and my friend reminded me of this the other day. So every time, D and L ran into one another I’d click and every second time I’d click I’d also reward wiith Lint’s most irrestible (unhealthy) treat, tiny almond piece. — It was a long day, breakfast, lunch and dinner on the patio for me (life is tough )
                                            I will try posting videos tomorrow.


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                                              So this weekend is all about bunny-bonding. The weather was in my favor so I scheduled nothing but bonding.

                                              I tried another neutral place not as scary as the bath tub with bad results. I put Lint and Deirdra in a giant travel crate in my basement. They had never been there, nothing was familiar. Lint acted aggressively, as I figured.

                                              This was Friday. My friend phoned me after and  she suggested (she knows that Lint is smart as a rat) that maybe Lint associated Deirdra with only stress and bad situations. Plus, I already knew that Lint gets very territorial and humpy in small spaces, he still displays this type of behavior toward Mops when confined in a small crate. So…. I took a leap of faith and took the sessions to the large area of my patio where Deirdra has her tunnel (figured she’d not want to share with Lint). I put Mops with them as well as the dogs, and evrybody in my neighborhood seemed to be running some kind of machine for yard work. There were no fights but Lint was tense.

                                               

                                              He spent much time pouting in his ‘cheese’ box but no chasing and no fighting.

                                              Whenever their paths crossed Lint found a way to avoid her, he jumped over the little barrier in this pic…

                                               

                                              Yesterday ended on a good note with all three buns in Deirdra’s tunnel. I called it  a day after that.

                                               

                                              Today i decided to put together  just Lint and Deirdra and the dogs and the surroundings were peaceful and quiet. Lint tried to claim the tunnel as his but after a half hour relaxed and allowed Deirdra a place in it.  He was, however, very tense…

                                              I clicked them over with the clicker and rewarded them both with treats. After that, they ate dandelions together, but Deirdra was shy, worried Lint would throw a fit…but he didnd’t, he just ate most of the dandies.

                                              They ended up in their favorite spot, respectively, the tunnel (it is big enough for me to go in if I had to), and Lint relaxed, grooming…

                                              They both went to sleep/grooming/doing cecals in the tunnel and spent two hours. Ended in good note.

                                              i will try again, the three together, later on today because there are also jealousy issues over Mops coming from Lint. … for now, I’m happy that there is some degree of tolerance. I will keep doing one bath tub session per day as well so i can get Lint to sit close to her and do more scent transfers.

                                               


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                                                so here’s the dandelion video clip that I messed up…

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                                                    Wow, how many attempts does it take me to post a video clip??

                                                    Oh, I wanted to say, THANKS MRMAC for the link !! — BTW, how is the bonding going at your end?


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                                                      Bonding weekend – now that’s a commitment. He appeared calmer so long as D kept her distance. She doesn’t seem to do anything antagonistic though does she?
                                                      lol “doing cecals” Ah yes. I called this watching cecal sequels. Quite boring when you’re sitting in a cold bathroom!


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                                                        Deirdra does nothing antagonistic. This is what gives me hope. But can you bond two bunnies who won’t allow humping respectively?
                                                        I was tying my bathroom for too long (only 1 bathroom in my house) so I am still planning the car ride as another technique (didn’t end up going for it yesterday), but I need to enlist an assistant.

                                                        I have noticed a progress though; when I first build D’s condo in their room, Lint used to nip at me when I’d go in it or get close to it to feed etc. He has stopped that.


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                                                          Ohh its going ok…They cant seem to not nip Dexter when he walks by but he doesnt ask for it at all. He just wants to be a part of their little group! I dont know if I would call it progress or not?! Dierdra and Lint seem to be doing a little better! Ahhh the cecals…how many can one little bunny eat during that time?! Its nuts!


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                                                            Today all three rabbits together and the dogs. Separated Lint when I couldn’t watch them. They are sharing the tunnel, as long as there is a distance between Deirdra and Lint. (3 feet at least).

                                                             

                                                            They took turns sitting with Mops.  First Lint….

                                                             

                                                            Then Deirdra…


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                                                              Aww! they seem to be getting along quite well!


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                                                                This is my bonding area. It’s a bit ramshackle .

                                                                Since Lint hasn’t chased Deirdra at all, I’m allowing the larger space for now under supervision.

                                                                 

                                                                Behind the white mini shed is the coveted tunnel…


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                                                                  I have had the trio of Lint, Mops and Deirdra together for 8 hours each on three coonsecutive days. I wanted to avoid the initial aggression Lint has toward Deirdra during the beginning of each session by allowing long continuous times together. I think, it’s working. There are friction points that trigger aggressive behavior from Lint, but there have been no fights. Mops has been great, serving as a common denominator between the other two. Yesterday, I had two major highlights happening that I caught on camera.

                                                                  One was the trio lounging together, in close proximity.

                                                                   

                                                                  Another highlight was dinner time. Lint usually will not tolerate Deirdra eating with him, but here…..

                                                                  Right now, Lint will not allow Deirdra in the mini shed. I’m thinking of trying them out free-range in the room today… just for a short sesison, with any hiding/chasing places blocked off. I definitey want to add a stressor, not sure which.  i’m still wondering, though, if two rabbits can bond that won’t submit to one another.


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                                                                    I wonder that too?


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                                                                      From the progession that’s happeing, I believe that it is just a matter of time. You may always have dust ups – Maryann still tends to lunge at Dono during dinner time because when I go to feed them, he darts away and she is already high strung due to the food. But they seem to be making excellent progress.


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                                                                        Any new updates Petzy?!


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                                                                          Well, I’ve been following your thread and feel I’m not quite that far yet… Mine are doing fine on the patio set-up. So well they were getting on that I dared put them together indoors. I dissolved Deirdra’s condo and changed the room quite a bit. I blocked off the access to underneath my bed  to allow the trio access to only  open space. Deirdra and Mops are so close now, even Deirdra will groom Mops (it used to be only the other way around.. ).  It’s so cute, too, since he has the long face furnishings it looked like she was flossing her front teeth with his cheek hairs…
                                                                          I put them all into the room. Things went well, there were treats waiting for them, the dogs were lounging and I observed… I stayed up so late drawing out the sssion but then Lint started chasing Deirdra and she screamed as he grabbed her fur. Now she is more afraid of him than before. He seems to have gained his courage back to go and try for a humping… and she will not have it.

                                                                          Here they are at the beginning of the session…

                                                                          I’m glad I took this photo because now it seems unreal that it really happened. Lint lied down first and D came after. Check out his expression, though, what is he thinking?

                                                                          Lint is actually unhappy with this threesome… he is only keeping from chasing her off because Mops is between them.

                                                                          After Deirdra screamed because Lint scared her, I put them in new territory in my yard in an L-shaped run.

                                                                          …where they sat sat like this for the duration of the session after Lint had nipped at Deirdra right away when I put them in.

                                                                          you can see Deirdra here very tense after she tried exploring the narrow run and getting nipped for it.

                                                                          –I’m now setting up a pen in my basement to have a neutral place indoors where they will interact (nothing new happening in the bathtub). I believe very much in the paired bonding for trios/quartetts etc. where you introduce each bun individuallly to the new bun, but in my case here, Mops definitely seems to keep Lint from chasing Deirdra.


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                                                                            Dexter screamed the first time he met Delilah too, after she got him. That scream is awful. Flossing her teeth with cheek hairs! hahaha  At least Mops seems to be keeping Lint in check when they’re together.


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                                                                              Today went well, my new basement bunny zone is almost ready and will help, especially myself since watching the bonding sessions has kept me from getting other things done that I normally do in the basement.

                                                                              On the patio this afternoon the normally uneventful time turned into a type of stress bonding delivered by the elments as we finally got the rain we needed !!


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                                                                                They are all buggy eyed! At least the rain did some good!


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                                                                                  Rabbit bonding can be…. unexpected!

                                                                                  Yesterday, I needed a new strategy. I had been seeing no more changes on the patio, only the usual, sitting together but then no interactions…

                                                                                  indoors I had had only unfriendly sessions or, like the bath tub, no interactions.

                                                                                  I washed the grids from Deirdra’s dissasembled condo and put one up in my basement. Total no-bun’s land.

                                                                                  Last night, I furnished it, and at midnight I moved in Mops, then Deirdra and lastly, the little devil Lint. This was the first time, in an enclosed space he didn’t chase or freeze. All three thoroughly explored the new dwelling. It took a while and eventually they each picked a spot for themselves to do routines… Lint and Deirdra respectively at opposite ends of the 5 by 2 by 2 grid condo. I stayed up til 3 a.m. watching them and then napped off in my makeshift  bed til 6!!! I woke up to three peaceful bunnies. (If they had founght it would have woke me.)

                                                                                   

                                                                                   

                                                                                   

                                                                                  I will leave them like this since while they’re sleeping now and then in the late afternoon it will be exercise time on the patio and then back into the condo overnight.

                                                                                  The great news is that I could see right away how Lint’s attitude and demeanour was different than in any other location I had tried. He was more like the bunny I used to know before Deirdra came.


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                                                                                    I’m enjoying reading these bonding threads very much. Someday maybe I’ll have some stories of my own . These are inspiring.

                                                                                    Petzy – I know they’re ears but it looks more like Mops has got some long hair .

                                                                                    Good luck with your bonding!


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                                                                                      If there was no fighting in that area, my suggestion would be not to take them out to the patio anymore. Keep them in there 24/7 and upwards of 3 weeks. Let them become complete buddies in neutral territory. It may seem cruel, especially to buns used to a lot of free run time but it enforces the bonds greatly.


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                                                                                        I’ll do that! They are actually quite happy in the basement because of the cooler temp.

                                                                                        Lint just asked for grooms from Deirdra.


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                                                                                          Wow what a process! You’ve got me rethinking adopting another bun! But Craigslist is evil and there are so many that need a good home! I have a male whose getting neutered soon… and would like to get him a friend.
                                                                                          I like how in one of the first videos its like “I hate you but I’m going to ignore you and eat” classic! Looks like things are slowly improving!


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                                                                                            Oh yay!!!!!!!!! Im glad Lint finally calmed down al little! They look qute content in the basement! So much progress!


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                                                                                              Now, if D just smartens up quick enough and gives him grooms, things will go much better and quicker then.

                                                                                              Most people are afraid to leave bonding bunnies somewhere 24/7 but they sometimes forget that THAT’S why they’re doing the bonding.


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                                                                                                Very well captioned!

                                                                                                I am just waiting for Lint to get grooms from Mops and D at the same time one day… that would be like him.

                                                                                                Here are some videos from last night taken during the first ten minutes of them moving into the bonding enclosure.

                                                                                                 


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                                                                                                  megrat, that’s great your bun is getting neutered soon! — but you can get a bunny other places than craigslist, right? Deirdra was originally from the meat auction.


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                                                                                                    Petzy – what great documentation of your process! Thanks so much for sharing. I think trios can be the tricky and so the more videos and info out there really will help others. It looks like they are well on their way! Congratulations! Bonding can be very time-consuming and stressful, and many times it takes a little diversion from the basic rules to make it work for the different scenarios. The fact that you observed and tried different things…well, again CONGRATS! I know that it’s still something that you have to watch but great job!!!


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                                                                                                      Thanks, BB. i really enjoy the video-making. It actually helps to watch them back after the sessions to pick up on some triggered behaviors. I always find the nipping looks very bad when it happens, but then I watched my videos and found it wasn’t too serious, at all.

                                                                                                      My three have been getting along. I don’t want to sleeo in my basement any longer… lol. — I observed a new thing Lint is doing to Deirdra: They all sit close together and then he starts to perform a ‘teethy groom’ on her that sometimes makes her jerk back a bit but not take off. It’s like a kitten’s love bites… licking and then a little pinch. But I’ve been finding no fur fluffs and their body language is relaxed. -It is going well.- I never thought I would say this, but I love having my bunnies in the basement, just because it helped the bond to happen!


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                                                                                                        Davey and Deliah are doing that teethy groom too to Dexter. I so glad its going well!!!


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                                                                                                          Jack did this to Rucy in the beginning, and he will do that with Vivian on the rare times he groomed her. When the other bunny would jerk, he did eventually try to be more gentle. Sometimes too, bunnies will find a little something – a little fur nodule (especially on bunny cheeks) and they focus in on it to try and get rid of it – sort of their way to help get off any ickies. So if he seems to be doing in the same place, that could be what’s going on, otherwise, he may learn to settle that type of groom down and become more gentle.


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                                                                                                            I enhanced the bonding condo since they are going to be in it for a couple of weeks, or longer. After reading about mrmac’s episode with Dexter’s cage becoming the subject of a quarrel, I wanted to see how Lint would react in the neutral/shared condo if I added his old ‘bathroom’ cage. Lint loves that thing, and was protective over it when I bonded him to Mops. I washed it with vinegar and attached it to the outside of the condo, leaving an entrance. Maybe I shouldn’t have done it so soon, but I had a good feeling. Lint chased D a few times out but then he settled and would let her be, only he doesn’t want her in it while he is using it. It makes cleaning for me easy because it has a slide-out tray that I can get from the outside of the condo. Plus, it adds more room. Here’s a tour of their space:

                                                                                                            And here you can see Lint nipping Deirdra during a rough groom… I checked and there isn’t anything there on her in that spot.

                                                                                                             


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                                                                                                              Should I not give pats on Lint’s head when he is bad like in the last video? I thought it might calm him, but watching it he looks like he’s thinking “hehe, Deirdra hopped away and I get lovings!”


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                                                                                                                I still think things are going great from what it looks like. Two things though.

                                                                                                                First, put the food where all three can eat it at once. Mealtime is a social time for buns just like it is for us humans.

                                                                                                                Second, about the pets, what you should do is pet both buns at the same time when Lint is sitting next to D like that but not nipping. When Lint begins to nip, you should say “NO!” as you don’t want to let him get away with it.


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                                                                                                                  They do eat together in that cube. It’s crowded but i thought it would bring them closer. I could change this space, make it bigger.

                                                                                                                  I definitely try to be less soft with Lint. He is jealous of D, nips at her and me when I pet her.


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                                                                                                                    Oh, the video made it look like there wasn’t enough room for three in there. I love how he’s using Mops as a barrier.

                                                                                                                    My maryann lunges at me whenever I bring my girlfriend over to the house so I know ALL about rabbit jealousy.


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                                                                                                                      –Mops the barrier bunny, LOL!

                                                                                                                      But this morning I brought them fresh clover and Lint didn’t care who he would get stuck beside…

                                                                                                                      And last night he even shared the litter box with D for a moment.


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                                                                                                                        YAY!!!!!! Looks like you did it! You have me beat! LOL! They all look so good together! Little bunny butts!


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                                                                                                                          It’s not true love yet though. Lint still enjoys making Deirdra leap away from him… He will posture as if he’s going to nip, but then she’s already gone and he sits there watching, squinting, pleased with himself and celebrates with a tooth chatter!


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                                                                                                                            HAHA Thats so funny, but not funny! Lint is so smart! hehe


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                                                                                                                              Lint surprised me! — See this clip: (bear with me, it’s in two parts)

                                                                                                                              in the first one it seems Deirdra doesn’t trust him even though he has no bad intentions….

                                                                                                                               

                                                                                                                              but then she decides to go for it…

                                                                                                                               

                                                                                                                               

                                                                                                                              bonding, or what?!


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                                                                                                                                Yup, that’s it. The fact that Lint went to flop next to her first was a great sign. Now, just keep them in that same place for another two weeks to make it stick and then you can bring them back up. Of course, try to descent their old home a bit with some water and vinegar and then make sure to transplant some of the stuff like the blankets from down there to upstairs.

                                                                                                                                Congratulations.


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                                                                                                                                  ***GASP*** I will have to admit I squealed when I watched this! YAYAYAYAYAY!!!!!!!


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                                                                                                                                    When I recorded the scene, I held my breath and I didn’t even expect part two to happen where D comes back to arrange herself tete-a-tete!
                                                                                                                                    It will a long time before I bring them upstairs. To the patio, yes, but the room maybe at the end of summer during the day…. I kinda like this set-up for night time. They can have all their noisy toys and I am getting great sleep!


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                                                                                                                                      Lint is beginning to interact with Deirdra most of the time when they are in close proximity. This here below I hadn’t seen him do before. Is it a friendly thing? He will dig at me like that sometimes so maybe it is a  friendly interaction…

                                                                                                                                       


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                                                                                                                                        How great was that 2-part video?! D is sweet, it was almost like an apology, coming back to lay there. She was on alert from when he just nosed her foot to begin with. He stayed in the position he loafed in and she figured it out it seemed. I think it may just be a case of D getting used to Lints style of grooming and he may soften it a bit but things look really, really good!


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                                                                                                                                          I can’t be certain. Usually that type of action means, “You’re not suppose to be there,”. It isn’t a mean thing, more of a “move please” thing. If Lint wanted to chase D away, he would have nipped her instead.


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                                                                                                                                            Thanks, Jersey! Been missing your input… you sick or something? (eating crackers)

                                                                                                                                            I had no idea that the digging at someone meant ‘move’. But move she did… so Lint gets his wish. Overall, they get along. Lint even groomed D for the first time yesterday, brief, but without inflicting pain or making her dart away. So far she hasn’t delivered any grooming attempts towards him. Most of the grooming is between D and Mops, it’s pretty obvious that they are a couple now. Lint doesn’t really care. If he wants to chum wiith Mops, Mops will chum with him, too. It’s only day 8 in the bonding exile…


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                                                                                                                                              They sound like they are doing good! Who cares if it was brief, it was a groom! hehe At least Lint is accepting that D and Mops are friends, and he hasnt lost Mops to Dierdra.


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                                                                                                                                                … you know, maybe I’m too hard on the little guy (Lint). You’re right, he puts up with a lot!


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                                                                                                                                                  I cheated today. I put them on the patio because I had to clean the condo well for the weekend. (company is coming with kids and they will want to see the trio of bunnies)

                                                                                                                                                   

                                                                                                                                                  Lint does no longer exact the 3 ft distance between him and D!!!


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                                                                                                                                                     aww how cute!!!! Thats one disapproving little rex face!!! Such a cute pic though! They all look so comfy!


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                                                                                                                                                      It’s been about six weeks since I introduced D into the house, she was only recently spayed at that point. I began the bonding one month ago with a 12-day off-time after D almost pierced Lint’s ear when he chased her in a humping pursuit.

                                                                                                                                                      Since I moved them into the bonding condo ten days ago, tremendous progress has taken place.

                                                                                                                                                      On Friday I took these photos while I had placed them on the patio. I cleaned their condo and found only one tuft of D’s fur, in the litter box.

                                                                                                                                                      Lint’s attitude has changed toward D, nobunny is attempting any humping or is sitting separately, pouting. This is unexpected to me because Lint used to be a determined humper, I even doubt he is chasing Mops during the night (as he used to), as I find no hairs suggesting this.

                                                                                                                                                      They continue to be in a state of transition and social orders will be established over time. For now, they share Mops as their diligent groomer  but grooming gestures have been made from Lint to D and vice versa!

                                                                                                                                                       

                                                                                                                                                      This video below is interesting to me because they become startled by noises around them and it seems that Lint and Deirdra both take on watch-bunny duty while Mops is relaxed. At the end, where Lint makes a slight nippy gesture at D I believe it to be a mere stress reaction, having nothing to do with D personally. — Since L and D both receive grooms from Mops, and both of them take in-charge positions in suggested danger, I assume they are both dominant in this trio, but without humping. I think, my trio consists of two dominant buns and one submissive bun. I had believed there could only ever be one dominant in any group. Was I wrong?

                                                                                                                                                       


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                                                                                                                                                        They all look so good!!!! Mops is so well protected! He’s had an upgrade to two bodyguards now!


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                                                                                                                                                          Posted By Petzy on 06/26/2009 10:03 AM
                                                                                                                                                          Thanks, Jersey! Been missing your input… you sick or something? (eating crackers)

                                                                                                                                                          Was beginning of last week but all good now, thanks!  I’m not that knowlegable in bonding but I do comment on what I see (think I see) from time to time.

                                                                                                                                                          That last video…maybe Mops didn’t hear the noise thru all that mane?!  Seems the uppy ears are always super alert to these things.  As to dominance, does D display much toward L?  I can see a dominance toward Mops.  Maybe it’s L – most dominant, then D then M.

                                                                                                                                                          Really interesting in final seconds of video – D lowers head to Mops and Lint reacts (he may have assumed she was requesting it from him.


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                                                                                                                                                            When Mops is alone, he perks up with every noise. You know, those loppy ears can radar out to the sides… I’m sure Rumball must do this, too. It’s too cute. — The noises are hard to hear on the video, but they were pretty loud.

                                                                                                                                                            I do believe Lint is #1, then Deirdra #2 and lastly Mops like you suggested.

                                                                                                                                                            Glad, you’re feeling better.


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                                                                                                                                                              I agree with Binkybunny – what a great documentation of the whole process – I’m sorry I didn’t have much advice to give but I had a lot of fun following their whole bonding journey I’ll be interested to see how their hierarchy ends up settling out, I’m wondering if Lint or Deidra will be #1, poor Mops is going to need extra papaya tablets of for all the fur he is grooming off Lint and D, haha


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                                                                                                                                                                No kidding. It’s a lot of fur for one bunny. All my rabbits despise papaya in all its forms. And pineapple, too, and kiwi…. but Mops is scheduled for another hair cut, I brush everybunny (Lint molting again, too) and Mops likes to eat extra rough hay.
                                                                                                                                                                — Thanks, MooBunnay!


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                                                                                                                                                                  Almost wo weeks in the bonding condo. No fights going on, and Deirdra started grooming Lint regularly, mostly without being asked to.  Lint stopped nipping her, but she is always quick to dart away. Lint seems to seek her company for lounging but he does not ‘love’ her yet. no.

                                                                                                                                                                  Deirdra grooming him just because he’s ‘there’…

                                                                                                                                                                  Lint feeling her over without nipping, but that’s all.

                                                                                                                                                                  Lint no longer nipping when D hops by close. .

                                                                                                                                                                  Eating together and notice how D’s greens fall on L’s head… does not bug him like it used to when D would poke into his portions.

                                                                                                                                                                  This I have been trying to get documented. The coveted litter box. There are two in the condo, one being the preferred choice by everybun, this one. Lint doesn’t do anything but Deirdra, feeling cornered maybe, thinks it safer to leave. I’m waiting for her to relax around Lint now that he has stopped the aggressions toward her. (*note: the condo is covered with blankets for the videos because I didn’t want to exhibit a chaos behind)

                                                                                                                                                                  Lint very recently started to take his chances trying to get to hump D. It is unsuccesful but not causing any issues between them. She doesn’t run away very far, and he doesn’t chase her far.

                                                                                                                                                                  Now, Deirdra is relaxed enough with Lint around to try getting to hump Mops. She tries frequently but not enough to stress him out. Sometimes he will endure it. (Video coverage of that incidence however has been censured.)


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                                                                                                                                                                    This is the actual video I was referring to. Where the greens fall on Lint’s head and she gets closer. Lint found that very offending still last week. He isn’t food protective any longer to Deirdra.


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                                                                                                                                                                      They are doing so good! Dierdra seem to be much more relaxed, even though shes not all the way there yet.


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                                                                                                                                                                        Haha! Was Lint requesting a drive-by grooming from her in that 3rd vid?
                                                                                                                                                                        Things look really,really good! If Lint is the nervous type, he might automatically react defensive when she nears…her being her size and all. Deirdra has such a cute stance, those solid front legs slightly turned out. Just hope she and Lint don’t gang up on poor ol’ Mops! It truly looks as if the heirachy is set in stone. Lint >> Deidra >> Mops. And you at the head of course.


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                                                                                                                                                                          hahahahaha! that’s it: a “drive-by grooming” I thought that but I couldn’t find the term… is that an Australian thing? Maybe the wombats do it?
                                                                                                                                                                          anyways, good eye! Lint definitely the nervous type. Nobunny will gang up on Mops… he is like a rare treasure because he never does anyone annoying to anyone!
                                                                                                                                                                          –do you think Deirdra’s legs are okay like that? I have been wondering if they are splayed.


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                                                                                                                                                                            Such wonderful progress! Great job!


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                                                                                                                                                                              THE END.


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                                                                                                                                                                                YAY!!!!!!


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                                                                                                                                                                                  YAY!!!!!!


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                                                                                                                                                                                    Congratulations and great work!


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                                                                                                                                                                                      It has been 3 months for my rabbits for being together as a trio. I wanted to give an update on their relationship. They never had any falling-out but Deirdra and Mops are the closest ones. No surprises there. Lint is sometimes rough with Deirdra, when she is blocking his way, e.g., or bugs him for grooms (she can be demanding). Deirdra knows to stop when he gets that way so it’s an understanding.

                                                                                                                                                                                      Two videos from earlier today. (sorry, not an action clip as Valmore delivered, my trio is laid-back )


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                                                                                                                                                                                        Mops and Deirdra are such buddies! Has anything between Lint and Mops changed?


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                                                                                                                                                                                          No. Lint and Mops are the same, even though they had ony been bonded for 3 months before Deirdra was introduced. It’s amazing. Mac, can you give an update on your trio in your thread? It might be interesting to see the dynamics after time.


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                                                                                                                                                                                            Yes, after seeing your update I thought it would be good too!


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                                                                                                                                                                                              Since Lint and Deirdra are now part of a rabbit quartet I have given them paired exercise time occasionally to observe their relationship between just the two of them.

                                                                                                                                                                                              –They could go out as a pair permanently, such sweet vibes have they got going on… !!!


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                                                                                                                                                                                                What sweet pictures! You are amazing Petzy.


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                                                                                                                                                                                                  Haha, — no: it’s the rabbits that are amazing.

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