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    • LoveChaCha
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        I browse through petfinder to look at the cute bunnies every now and then…

         

        Today, one pulled on my heart. It made me smile.

         

        He is a 5 month old neutered dwarf rabbit, currently in foster.

        He is basically a male version of my Chacha bun. His name is Chocolate.

        Inside, it would make me happy to have another little one running around, keeping Chacha busy, companionship. On the other hand, I live in an apartment, and I have to get my dad’s permission first. I would clean out and use the XL dog kennel I have for him (if I am given the OK) and start the bonding process. I see a lot of positives coming out of this – Chacha would be happy to have someone when I am busy at home doing school work, or at work. The downside, I don’t know how I would do with TWO free range rabbits. Chacha is really really lazy and doesn’t get into naughty stuff (except for chewing on my door to wake me up the other morning) and is the most laid back, diva like rabbit.

        I really do not want to make a fuss out of this and I don’t really want any pressure.. just some thoughts.

        My dad has joked around in the past that I should get another rabbit… the apartment is already rabbit proofed. When both are bonded, I would create a bigger NIC grid condo for them to be in when I am not at home. Or, at least until I know I can fully trust the boy not to get into naughtyness… hahaa.

        Ah.. the little man has pulled on my heart


      • Monkeybun
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          I would ask your dad first, then take Chacha is to meet buns. Don’t get attached to a single bun, let Chacha do the choosing


        • LoveChaCha
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            Of course I’m going to ask when he wakes up from his nap. If he says no, I’ll drop it.


          • LoveChaCha
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              He said: “Its up to you. As long as he doesn’t have bad habits.”

              o_O

              If she doesn’t like him, I’ll take her bunnah dating.


            • Sam and Lady's Human
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                Oooh! I knew there was a reason I stayed off petfinder How soon will you know?? Such a tough decision!


              • Beka27
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                  Well, I certainly couldn’t think of a better home for him. With that said, you need to remember that not all bunnies can successfully be free roam all the time. I’m worried about your dad saying “As long as he doesn’t have bad habits.” Because chances are you won’t get a ChaCha duplicate. Are you willing to limit her to a pen if he is not free roam material?


                • LoveChaCha
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                    If all goes okay, I plan to build a bigger and spacious nic grid home.

                    I just contacted the shelter and now I’m trying to talk to people to arrange a ride.


                  • SugarbearNPepper
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                      I have three buns and my daughter and I live in a 2-bedroom condo. It’s small but we make it work. Good luck to you LoveChaCha!!


                    • luvmyhunybuny
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                        I say go for it LoveChaCha! Please let us know how it works out. I never intended to get a 3rd bun and here I am!!


                      • peppypoo
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                          Awwww yay! Best of luck to you and Chacha no matter what you choose!


                        • LoveChaCha
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                            Thanks guys I feel the loveeee

                            Well, I called and left a message with the shelter about it. I will get a call within 48 hours. I need to arrange a time and a ride with someone. My dad’s car isn’t in too good of shape at the moment (thank goodness my vet is just 5 minutes away and my dad doesn’t mind that drive). Even if I did drive, the car I would be driving wouldn’t be too great (it went kapoot…). Crossing my fingers here. If the meeting doesn’t work, I will know it wasn’t meant to be. I will wait until my dad gets his car fixed so he can take me to other places in the near future

                            I have thought of having a second bun in my life, but I didn’t expect it to be now But with school starting in January (I’ll be at home for school since it is online based) I think she’ll benefit from having a friend when mommy is hitting the books.

                            I did a lot of thinking and I believe it is time. I am ready to have whatever set up there needs to be to have a happy Chacha and a happy ‘bunny #2.’

                            Sugarbear, heh, yes, I live in an apartment I wish I lived back in the house I used to live in It was so much bigger hahah


                          • TaraMichele
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                              Im excited for you! when I got cady I couldnt wait to get him a wifey…but I hope it all works out! and whatever bun will be lucky to have such a great bunny mama!


                            • Stickerbunny
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                                Hope things go well, good luck!


                              • LittlePuffyTail
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                                  Another Chacha!!! Are your really prepared for that???  lol

                                  I think it’s wonderful that you are considering opening your home to another bunny. Just keep in mind, though, that bonding bunnies may take a long time (as in my case). And if you are already busy with work and school, having to do bonding sessions can take up even more time and add stress to your life. My bonding is so slow right now because I’m so busy, it’s hard to spend more than an hour a day at it and it feels like we’re going nowhere.

                                  It would be so cute to have a little boy Nethie do match Chacha. Try to pick one with a little less ‘tude though, or they may clash. I’m sure Chacha will not pick a buddy that would usurp her crown, that’s for sure.

                                  Good luck with the arrangements at the shelter. I would love to see pics of the meeting!


                                • Elrohwen
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                                    It’s a tough decision! With my pair, Otto would do well free range, but I’d never trust Hannah because she likes to explore places she’s not supposed to go. Still, I think Otto has been better off with limited space and a buddy than he would’ve been just being free range. Hannah has added a lot to all of our lives even if she does cause trouble sometimes and keep Otto from being free range when we’re not home.

                                    I think you’d be a fantastic home for the little guy. Just make sure you have enough time to devote to bonding every day (I was unemployed at the time so time wasn’t a problem, but I can’t imagine bonding while working full time or going to school). Good luck meeting him! I’m very excited for you and ChaChaBun.


                                  • LoveChaCha
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                                      My school doesn’t begin until January I will be at home that quarter for all my studies, and starting Spring-Winter, I’ll be at the school twice a week for clinicals. I am working now, but my hours vary week to week.

                                      The person that wrote the adoption page said that Chocolate is very shy. I’ll include his ad:

                                      http://www.petfinder.com/petdetail/20685146

                                      I’m crossing my fingers that he isn’t taken yet, and that the shelter calls me back very soon ><!!!!!


                                    • Beka27
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                                        He is gorgeous! Of course… sometimes one of the great things about adopting a second is getting a different breed or a bun that looks very different from the one you already have.

                                        *Looks at Max and Meadow*

                                        Erm… nevermind. Lol.


                                      • Elrohwen
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                                          He’s darling!

                                          Beka, at least you have one lop and one uppy earred. I ended up with two spotted lops. lol Though personality-wise they’re night and day, so that has to count for something.


                                        • LoveChaCha
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                                            Beka, but I’m sure that you can tell them apart.

                                            I had a friend text me yesterday saying “So are you gonna give the male a mohawk?”


                                          • SugarbearNPepper
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                                              Awww..perfect couple!


                                            • MimzMum
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                                                Lolz…I was thinking matched set..like salt and pepper shakers or bookends. The question is, are you prepared for either attitude, unbearable cuteness or even disapproval on stereo?! (is thinking of the two siamese cats in Lady & the Tramp) 0_o
                                                He is BEYOND adorable! Please let us know how you get on, I’m so excited for you!


                                              • LoveChaCha
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                                                  I still haven’t heard back from a volunteer. It has been 21 hours. It said approx 48 hours. I hope that he isn’t gone I have 2 friends that can give me rides to see him (and bring Chacha along of course).

                                                  Should I buy another carrier? What will I need? I’m not sure if I can take him home that day (IF miss diva chooses he is a good match for her) or not, but I just want to be prepared.

                                                  Don’t even ask how (if successful) I’m going to tell them apart… LOL


                                                • luvmyhunybuny
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                                                    I would do one carrier. You can start by stressing them on the way home. Then take them directly to a neutral area. I did that with Tillie and Toby and it went off without a hitch. Well sorta…. lol


                                                  • MimzMum
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                                                      Personally, I feel you can always use an extra carrier, but perhaps he already has one. I wouldn’t do anything just yet.
                                                      I feel your pain…my gosh, I’d be going nuts waiting!


                                                    • Monkeybun
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                                                        Bring an extra carrier just in case, but definitely try the one carrier on the way home stress trick


                                                      • Sarita
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                                                          I agree, take another carrier just in case. He’s totally adorable! Hope you hear back soon.


                                                        • Lintini
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                                                            Oooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

                                                            He’s really cute! I am so happy for Chacha and you! I hope everything works out perfectly!


                                                          • LoveChaCha
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                                                              Great great Thanks everyone!

                                                              I am still anxiously awaiting the phone call back.. I checked my phone while on my break at work and I sighed.. and frowned. I hope that I”ll get a call tomorrow or else I”m going to have to keep calling to leave messages 

                                                              I showed my dad the boy and he said “CUTEEEEEEeeee you HAVE to get him!!”


                                                            • LizzieKnittyBun
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                                                                omg i love your dad!


                                                              • LittlePuffyTail
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                                                                  Okay, I’m not gonna lie…he made me “squee”. Love the colour. Chocolate is a perfect name for him. Chacha and Chocolate. Sounds nice, yes?

                                                                  (is thinking of the two siamese cats in Lady & the Tramp)

                                                                  lolz….”We are Nether-ees if you please”….


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                                                                    Posted By LizzieKnittyBun on 09/14/2011 01:49 AM
                                                                    omg i love your dad!

                                                                     

                                                                    My dad always joked about another rabbit.. but I was respectful that I still live with him. I told him that while I’m busy at school and work, she’ll have a friend…

                                                                    Still no call yet.. If I don’t get a call after work, I’M GOING TO CALL BACK AGAIN


                                                                  • Elrohwen
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                                                                      The suspense is killing me!


                                                                    • LoveChaCha
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                                                                        It is making me nervous and anxious

                                                                        Someone on my FB said ‘with so many animals needing adopting, they sure take their time to call someone back who wants to adopt..’

                                                                        >____<

                                                                        I’m going to lose it!!!


                                                                      • Elrohwen
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                                                                          Maybe something is going on with the rescue owners – there could be an emergency or something that’s causing them to take more time. Just stay positive!

                                                                          If you get him, will you rename him? What’s “chocolate” in Japanese?


                                                                        • LoveChaCha
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                                                                            That is very true.. >___< *breathe!!!!!!!!!!!!!*

                                                                            I think I’ll keep his name. Chacha’s given name means ‘Black Tea’ in Japanese. Chocolate in Japanese is shortened to ‘Cho-ko,’ I believe.

                                                                            I must get ready for work. I hope the shelter calls me back while I’m at work… or after.. or tomorrow.. hahah


                                                                          • Tate
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                                                                              I’ve heard a lot of stories about how slow foster families and rescues get back to people. I think it’s normal to not hear a response immediately.
                                                                              Even if you don’t get Chocolate, it’s cool that you are finally ready to open up your house to another bunny! There are sooooo many out there, so even if this doesn’t work out, I’m sure there will be another one waiting.
                                                                              I’m interested to see how Chacha does with the initial meeting and then with bonding afterwards! Honestly, I think you’ll end up with more than just two rabbits- Queen Chacha needs many minions.


                                                                            • LoveChaCha
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                                                                                Oh yes, I just experienced that lol. I called the direct line and they said it can take a while -_-;;

                                                                                I checked his page again and it went from 19 likes to 51! Are you guys all clicking LIKE on his page? Hahah!! Man, it makes me a little nervous about how many may consider adopting him. I left a second voicemail this morning. I hope that it shows that I am serious about possibly adopting him. I sent an e-mail to the manager of the shelter. I hope that can push things through.

                                                                                If it wasn’t meant to be, I’ll be sad, but.. there are always other ones out there. If he taken, I hope that he gets an entire house to run around in.

                                                                                Hahahah! :p As long as I’m with my dad, I don’t think i’ll have more than 2! My bf is a little nervous about me having 2 rabbits.. but he loves miss Diva. He’ll have to love whoever she chooses. I told him the benefits of her having a friend

                                                                                Chacha needs minions to groom her 24/7 HAHAHA!!!!!!!!!!!


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                                                                                  UPDATE

                                                                                  I emailed the shelter manager and I received a phone call back from a volunteer.

                                                                                  He said that a family had seen Chocolate, but the foster parent has not returned any emails whether or not he was adopted or not. He is guessing not, but you never know. He said the foster parent is a girl out of high school whose mother will not let her have any rabbits.

                                                                                  The volunteer said that he will keep in contact with me (and even give me his email) to let me know whether or not Chocolate has been adopted or when the foster parent contacts him back to arrange a visit (for me).

                                                                                  THE SUSPENSE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! And I’m kind of frustrated… he did mention that the foster parent doesn’t respond to e-mails very much…


                                                                                • brittbritt
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                                                                                    When we took Gabby to meet Thumper I was so nervous she wouldn’t like him. The foster mom who works part time at the shelter thought Thumper may never be placed in a home due to his previous household tormenting him. He hopped thru the x pen and right into the pet store guinea pig/rabbit cage I brought Gabby in. She sat still as a statue and after a while he laid beside her. They rode all the way home side by side and after a few days of chasing they are so in love.

                                                                                    I hope you get your Chocolate and Cha Cha loves him.


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                                                                                      They should make sure that the foster people are willing to co-operate. That is the point of fostering…to get more animals adopted.


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                                                                                        Posted By LittlePuffyTail on 09/15/2011 04:25 AM
                                                                                        They should make sure that the foster people are willing to co-operate. That is the point of fostering…to get more animals adopted.

                                                                                        And especially with the sheer number of rabbits available.  Unfortunately, they are “a dime a dozen”… so if you weren’t already somewhat invested in him, you’d be off looking at another bun already and they would have missed their chance.

                                                                                        So if this girl isn’t allowed rabbits, I wonder why she’s allowed to foster?  Did they say if this is the only rabbit she has there?  You would think HER mother would be the one answering emails saying, “YES!  Come see the rabbit [so we can get it out of here].”  Unless the daughter is purposely not answering emails because she doesn’t *want* the bun to get adopted because then “her” rabbit is gone and her mom doesn’t want anymore.  So many theories, lol.  

                                                                                        Regardless, hopefully you can go see him, but try not to be too attached (it’s hard I know), in case the meeting doesn’t go well.  If ChaCha doesn’t like him, the responsible thing to do is move on and meet other buns.

                                                                                        Read the beginning of the HRN bonding article prior to going b/c this details what to expect.  You might know this to some degree from being on the board, but it’s a good reminder:

                                                                                        http://www.rabbitnetwork.org/articles/bond.shtml

                                                                                         


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                                                                                          I don’t get it either, Beka.
                                                                                          That is my intention. if Chacha doesn’t like him, that is the end of it. I’m not going to force her to like him if she doesn’t.

                                                                                          Thank you for the article


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                                                                                            When I was looking at rescues it took over a week for the rescue to get back to me about a pair of buns that were up for adoption, it’s a shame so many don’t respond very quickly! Would probably increase adoptions to simply answer emails within the set time frame. Hope he’s still available, I would think they would make their fosters at least respond to emails … or keep them updated on if the bun has been adopted or not, shouldn’t the rescue have the final say in that anyway?


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                                                                                              Brittany, I’m on tenterhooks! It looks like he’s with a general animal shelter,not rabbit specific rescue. That might also be why there are delays. So many animals.

                                                                                              What’s “chocolate” in Japanese?

                                                                                              Haha I’d wondered that too and looked it up. Choko and Chacha would sound verrry cute…. I hope you hear something soon and Chacha approves if they meet.


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                                                                                                It looks like Chocolate’s ad was taken down.


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                                                                                                  Sorry about chocolate – but there are TONS of rabbits out there that need homes. Try to remember that shelter/rescue volunteers – are just that – volunteers. They work full time jobs, have kids to take to soccer, meals to cook – their lives are just as hectic as everyone else’s and they quite amazingly take on the responsibility of volunteering to save lives as well. So while allowing a young girl who is not allowed to have a rabbit (?) to volunteer seems really odd at best – just try to keep in mind what a full plate rescue foster families and volunteers have. If 30 people are interested i nteh same animal how long would it take you to read through all the applications and do vet checks and get references? It can be a long process.

                                                                                                  Did you fill out an app for chocolate? His ad may have been taken down because he had a lot of applications but they had not yet decided on the best potential adopter.

                                                                                                  Best of luck in finding a bunny that fits the bill if you are still interested in adding a second


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                                                                                                    Awww, I’m sorry Britt! When we first looked for a second bunny there were a couple I was very interested it and none of them worked out. One was still listed and her previous owners had been holding onto her – by the time I inquired, they said they weren’t sure they wanted to give her up. After waiting a week they said they wanted to keep her. I was so sure she was going to be our bunny!

                                                                                                    When we got Hannah I wasn’t sure of her at all and felt like she wasn’t our first choice bunny. Of course, now I love her to death and I can’t imagine not having her.

                                                                                                    You’ll find the right bunny for you and Chacha 🙂


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                                                                                                      Aw, I’m sorry.

                                                                                                      Have you checked out Rabbit Meadows? http://www.rabbitmeadows.org/shelter/Adoptedcurrent.asp


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                                                                                                        You should check out Flemmies; their personalities are so different from other bunnies! I get to see lots of pet bunnies from loveable house rabbit people because when I go to my rabbit sitter she’s always got a full house! The flemmies I’ve met so far are all super pokey and love snuggles. Except one I met she didn’t really care about anything lol, but that was at the shelter.


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                                                                                                          I’ll have to see what Miss Diva chooses at the shelter in the near future. There are no flemmies at the shelter right now.

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