i agree with Scarlet. i’m concerned about the socialization thing. spaying is *easy* and that will reduce the risk of cancer, bred or not… so that’s not a problem… i believe you have a child too, or am i imagining that? with a child, i would be concerned with a rabbit that might have aggression issues, or be extremely territorial even after spaying. that’s just my thought… the ideal, again like Scarlet said, would be to allow Ollie to pick his own mate after neutering… if not, go yourself to a shelter/rescue so you can pick from a large number of rabbits, and look for one that has a personality that will work for your family and then work on bonding. remember: this bun will be a part of your family for many years to come, it’s easier to care for/love a different color or breed, than a difficult personality for ten plus years.
edited to clarify: i am in no way saying that the “difficult buns” don’t deserve loving homes, b/c they absolutely do, but you need to evaluate if this is something that you have the patience to take on, and the ability to spend time doing the necessary work involved, esp. with bonding.