I was so happy to find this thread!! I have had the weirdest day with Daisy! She loves to be petted, but on her terms. I have to be on the floor next to her and I am not allowed to pick her up! She hates to be held and if I try and lift her, she kicks like a donkey!
But I have been having the best luck recently. A new flatmate moved in, Sara, and she spends time with Daisy. I swear, the girl is Mrs Doolittle. Since Sara arrived, Daisy has been more mellow, more playful and seems a lot happier. I have been working on getting her to allow me to pick her up. It’s been a slow process, but since Sara has been here, it’s like she has a new lease of life! I have managed to get Daisy to the stage where I can pet her on the floor and then when she is completely relaxes, I can lift her gently onto my lap and pet her there. She only stays for a few moments before she realises that she is out of her comfort zone and hops down. I let her do this, and wait for her to settle near me again before repeating the process.
Then today… I had her on my lap for a full 30 minutes! It’s like Christmas has come early!! After half an hour, she hopped down and began to circle me on the floor, hopping about and making a grunting sound. then she hopped back on my lap and asked for more strokes! I obliged, of course, and after another 10 minutes, she hopped back down and circled me a dozen times, again with the little grunts.
I was slightly worried. I got onto the forum just as soon as I could. I heard that bunnies only make noises when they are angry or frightenened. (She growls at the broom whenever I sweep her room! She really hates the thing!!) But to find out that she might just be hormonal is such a relief! She has been humping her comfort toy (The Cheshire Cat, three times the size of her!) since she was a tiny bubba. But recently, the humps have been more frequent! I think it’s time for a trip to the vet! I am calling them tomorrow to book an appointment.
I feel so sad to do it now, since we are now bonding on my terms as well as hers, but I mustn’t be selfish. If she is hormaonal, she must be pretty wound up, and I am sure that with patience and perserverance, I can get her back to her new self in time. At least now I know that she has the ability to be affectionate! What a relief!
I can’t thank Sara Doolittle enough! Something about the girl has made Daisy relax. I am so very grateful to her! She has done the same with my evil hamster! Snake Bait (as she is affectionately names) is a biter and always has been. I can’t really hold her because she is so fast and squirmy. But since Sara has been handling her, SB might as well be a new hamster!! She doesnt bite any more, she has mellowed out and is now slow enough for me to play with her for ages on end!
I swear, it’s like this girl was sent from animal heaven to help me! I feel dissappointed in myself that I could not effect this change alone. I feel like a failing mother who had to call Nanny 911!!! But what the hey, at long last, my animals are starting to love me as much as I love them! I am so happy I could actually sing!!!