Hi LuvOurStewart. I am sorry to hear about Stewart.
I am not sure if Godiva having a litter before and being an excellent mom will have any impact on a bonding. Although it has given her experience interacting with other bunnies, bonding is different. Typically it is recommended that both are fixed, healed and hormones leveled before you attempt bonding so you would be looking at some time before you can bond her with Gilbert. You would have to keep them separate until then so you wouldn’t be looking at introducing a baby to her at that point anymore. Does can even fight with their own offspring once hormones become involved.
I would recommend to evaluate if you have the time and space for both in case they don’t end up bonding. Another thing to consider is patience. You would want to make sure you can be patient enough to just wait the time out before you can safely bond them. Most bonding experts (I am far from an expert) agree that most bunnies will eventually bond but some take a lot longer than others. You just want to keep in mind that an 8 week old won’t even have it’s personality developed.
The safest route is to get one, have it fixed, and then maybe do speed dating at a shelter to have them pick their own friend. The other benefit is this will give you more time to just devote to one and get to know each other better. I got a 5 month old and am just now finishing up a bond (hopefully) and he is now a year and a half old. I actually like that I didn’t get two at the same time because we have a great bond with each other that I am not sure would have happened if I started with two. I actually went a different route because I just was not able to find what I was looking for at shelters near me so I decided to get a second bunny that was close to being a senior that was looking for a home for a while. She was actually just under 6 months old actually. It made me feel slightly better that I was at least helping a bun that needed a home more (as opposed to the more ‘desirable’ babies) and I also didn’t have to wait that long to get them fixed. I knew it was risky that it wouldn’t work but I was prepared to have two separate buns if needed.
Trust me I know it’s a hard decision! Good luck with whatever you choose!!