Hi there,
Sounds like a tough spot to be in
I would suggest trying orchard. It seems like many people who are allergic to timothy do OK with orchard. I think oat would probably be the most different from Timothy. It also seems like some people are more allergic to the dust in timothy, or some of the molds it can have, vs. the hay itself. Oat might also be a good option, but it tends to be a bit dusty.
The grinding of the teeth happens from the side to side chewing of the long hay strands, so there aren’t really any good substitutes.
I wonder if you could keep bun in your room, and run some extra makeshift hepa filters? I made a filter like this: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kH5APw_SLUU
when there were wildfires in my area to help with the smoke. Perhaps making a couple to put in the bunny room and around the home would be enough?
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