Forum

OUR FORUM IS UP BUT WE ARE STILL IN THE MIDDLE OF UPDATING AND FIXING THINGS.  SOME THINGS WILL LOOK WEIRD AND/OR NOT BE CORRECT. YOUR PATIENCE IS APPRECIATED.  We are not fully ready to answer questions in a timely manner as we are not officially open, but we will do our best. 

You may have received a 2-factor authentication (2FA) email from us on 4/21/2020. That was from us, but was premature as the login was not working at that time. 

BUNNY 911 – If your rabbit hasn’t eaten or pooped in 12-24 hours, call a vet immediately! Don’t have a vet? Check out VET RESOURCES

The subject of intentional breeding or meat rabbits is prohibited. The answers provided on this board are for general guideline purposes only. The information is not intended to diagnose or treat your pet. It is your responsibility to assess the information being given and seek professional advice/second opinion from your veterinarian and/or qualified behaviorist.

What are we about?  Please read about our Forum Culture and check out the Rules

BUNNY 911 – If your rabbit hasn’t eaten or pooped in 12-24 hours, call a vet immediately!  Don’t have a vet? Check out VET RESOURCES 

The subject of intentional breeding or meat rabbits is prohibited. The answers provided on this board are for general guideline purposes only. The information is not intended to diagnose or treat your pet.  It is your responsibility to assess the information being given and seek professional advice/second opinion from your veterinarian and/or qualified behaviorist.

BINKYBUNNY FORUMS

Forum BEHAVIOR How to get an abused bunny to trust/like me?

Viewing 5 reply threads
  • Author
    Messages

    • senatcha93
      Participant
      90 posts Send Private Message

        I have adopted him earlier this month and he gets along fine with my other rabbit. He is super submissive and timid so the bonding process wasn’t very hard and didn’t take long.

        I get sad that he doesn’t want me to pet him or runs off when I approach. Sometimes when he didn’t see me handling something in his immediate surroundings he will lunge at me trying to bite. He already sleeps in bed with me and the other bunny every night. I also saw him flop to the side a few times. However, he is still scared to death of me and my hands.

        He got passed around four times before I adopted him. One of his back toes is crooked and bends over the other toes. I think maybe in the past children were chasing after him and carried him around which might be why he is so skittish.

        What can I do to make him like me?


      • Wick & Fable
        Moderator
        5813 posts Send Private Message

          I would give him time and not force anything. You’re going to have him, assumably for the rest of his life, so you have time, no need to rush.

          If he is from a child background, he needs to learn for himself that not every human will go “at” him and will leave him be. He also needs to learn that not every human is a loud, running, screaming child. He may be generalizing at this point, so you not providing that supporting evidence (petting, approaching, picking up) will help extinguish that association over time.

          I’d say continually associate yourself with the presentation of food and do some hand feeding, but that’s it until he gets more comfortable.

          The answers provided in this discussion are for general guideline purposes only. The information is not intended to diagnose or treat your pet. Seek the advice of your veterinarian or a qualified behaviorist.


        • Goochball
          Participant
          22 posts Send Private Message

            Classical music helps my bunnies to relax and they really seem to like it. One of my bunnies was really shy at first, but I quietly sat on the floor and tried not to move much and he would come up to sniff me, and eventually he got pretty comfortable with having me around. Now sometimes he will just hop around behind me.


          • LittlePuffyTail
            Moderator
            18092 posts Send Private Message

              Patience and, if you are not doing so, spend as much time as you can at his level, ignoring him is best. Just watch TV, read, whatever. It took my Bridge bun, Olivia, about a year to finally realize I was her friend and for her to enjoy petting. I suspect she was also abused in the past. It can take bunnies like that quite a bit longer but give it time. One month is still very early in your relationship.


            • joea64
              Participant
              1423 posts Send Private Message

                Patience; as the old saying goes, time heals all wounds. My Panda went through some unspecified experiences before being rescued that left her frightened of humans, and it’s taken her quite some time for her to build her trust to the point where she’s starting to be willing to allow me to pet her at certain times of days; she’s usually most amenable to petting at breakfast time.


              • Asriel and Bombur
                Participant
                1104 posts Send Private Message

                  On top of what everyone else has said, please separate your bunnies if they have not gone through the proper bonding process. First, your new bun didn’t have time to settle in, which means after a few months you could end up having a bun with a personality that’s different from the one in the first month. Second, if they have not gone through the proper bonding process, they are very likely to fight later on, especially if anything changes. You need to properly bond them so that their bond is cemented and little things will not make them fight.

                  Proper bonding process: let new bun settle and adjust to surroundings for 1 month, prebond for 1 month, then begin short sessions in neutral territory leading up to a few overnight sessions. 

              Viewing 5 reply threads
              • You must be logged in to reply to this topic.

              Forum BEHAVIOR How to get an abused bunny to trust/like me?