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Forum BONDING bonding failure

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    • SirBunny
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        So after several months of prebonding I just tried my first bonding session and it did not go well. They are side by side in cages with hardware clothe so they can’t nip, and they are constantly flopping against eachother on either side of the cage and they seem to “like” eachother. And I’ve been switching their cages every day. So I was hoping the bonding session would go smoothly.

        I don’t think it was a disaster, but I stopped the session after less than 5 minutes because they were grunting and kept nipping eachother. I had a piece of cardboard that I kept putting in between them because they both were excited and seemed on the verge of being aggressive. I have bad anxiety so my heart was pounding and that probably didn’t help either.

         

        I’m not supposed to let them just fight it out, right? If i hadn’t intervened it looked like it was about to become very aggressive.

         What do i do? Do I just keep trying until they seem chill with eachother? This is extremely frustrating, my whole room is barricaded with cages and fences and I just want them to bond so they can be free roam and it doesn’t feel like my room is a giant prison

         


      • Asriel and Bombur
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          Isn’t one of them about a month out from being fixed? It can take up to two months for hormones to die down, so it could be in your best interest to wait a little longer.

          Also did you do the introduction in neutral territory? If not that could contribute to the aggression as both buns would see the territory as their own.


        • SirBunny
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            Yes, Maby was fixed exactly one month ago. I guess I will wait another month before trying again. I just thought it would be okay today because she doesn’t really display any hormonal behaviors that I notice.

            And it was in neutral territory, they are allowed to roam the length of the hallway with a gate at the end, and I made a small enclosure there after the gate. So maybe it wasn’t neutral enough, since it was at the end of the hallway?

             

             

            Also i should note that they weren’t exactly fighting, they seemed to be circling a bit and Maby kept hopping into the air and there were some grunts. So i separated them because it seemed like the prelude to a fight.

             

            I just wish there was somebody who could come to my house and help me bond them


          • DanaNM
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              Hi there,

              I don’t know your full history, but that sounds fairly average for a first date!

              A bit more time post-spay could help. A bigger, more neutral space could also help. Rabbits are very scent oriented, so if their normal turf is nearby, they can smell it, which makes that territory “semi-neutral”.

              They other tip I would try is to pet them both A LOT at the beginning of the session and any time they approach each other. Rather than use the cardboard to separate them, when they move towards each other, pet pet pet pet. Smoosh them both down and swap scents. Keep doing this until they relax (and you relax)! This will help them start to be more calm around each other, and will also help you!

              At this stage, don’t be afraid to be petting them a lot. They will for sure need to do a bit of nipping etc, but until you get a good idea of what will escalate and when to intervene, err on the side of petting too much.

              I also find it helpful in the early sessions to set short time goals (1 min, 3 min, 5 min), so you aren’t tempted to push things too far. Always end on a good note, so if at the end of your time goal things are a bit tense, pet pet pet until they are calm, then end it there.

              You can do it! Deep breaths!

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