Has anyone had periods of time where their Buns have decided, “I may have let you get away with all of “THAT” before but it ain’t happening now!”? My BunBun gave me the proudest day when a few months ago she let me trim her nails, on my own, no fuss, fur, drama or fury! Now, I’ve been trying to get a hold of her for weeks trying to get her to let me trim them again! She is beginning to tap on the kitchen floor! I have also noticed that during that same time, she also stopped sitting on my lap as much, and letting me gently lift her two front paws to snuggle quickly, the way she used to. She has shown no upsets or frustrations… she lays next to me and always is happy when I’m petting her.
I thought I honestly hit an all time milestone where I wld never have to worry about having to ask anyone else to help me trim her nails ever again… also would be helpful since there really isn’t anyone else to do so… it’s just me and my 13 year old, and she responds more to me. I don’t really want to stress her out but she needs to allow her nails to be cut… I almost feel like she is testing who runs the show and right now she has found out that it might be her! I would really like to try to put her up on the table but she has jumped down from my arms in fear once from a higher height and I worry she may try to jump from it and get hurt.
I feel like she is making me relive my noobie days… although not that long ago! But geez! I’m pretty sure that many of you all will tell me she senses my insecurity and I need to hold her firm and just let her know who’s boss (at least during grooming and care giving), but please answer anyway… her nails were left unkept when I first got her so her quicks are a bit long and one of her nails already turns out due to her previous owners, so I’m up for as many “ just hold her like you mean it and get them done! as I need.