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Forum BONDING Rebonding back into a trio

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    • Molly
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        Ive had my trio for almost two years and they were adopted together very young and already bonded, they got on fairly well but theyve never been as “in love” as my others who are in a pair. Heres a little info on each one in the trio:
        Squid: The dominant one, shes often a meanie to the other two especially around feeding time or if they get too confident and step out of line.
        Noodle: Quite timid and usually lets Squid walk all over her but otherwise is her closest friend.
        Shrimp: Very timid and is usually Squids worst victim, recently developed headtilt (which shes now fully recovered from) so i had to take her away from Squid and Noodle so i could keep an eye on her.

        My issue now is with Shrimp, she still lives seperate from Squid and Noodle (because she doesnt eat much and they would swallow up her food before she had a chance to eat) but has daily playtime with them. During playtime she is left out and picked on, they never full on fight but theres a lot of nipping and chasing and i can tell shes not as happy with them as she used to be. But it feels so wrong taking her away from the buns she once loved, wouldnt they miss each other?

        Should i keep trying to fix the bond between the three (and if i do how am i going to make sure she gets enough to eat) or should i take her away from Squid and Noodle and get her a new mate that would match with her extremely timid personality?
        What does everyone think would be in her (and the other twos) best interest?


      • jerseygirl
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          Hi Molly
          It’s good to hear that Shrimp has overcome the head tilt. Is she still regaining strength?

          This happened a bit with my F-F-M trio some years back. One female developed head tilt and it took a good month of nursing her through it. She lost a lot of weight during this time. It was the other female(actually her daughter) that was not as accepting of her when it was time for her to go back with them full time. I think in my case though, this female was not as dominant as Squid sounds. She could show some sass but underneath it was just uncertain at times. So I was lucky that it’s didn’t take too much effort to get them back to normal. It helped that the boy was a happy-go-lucky type. I was pretty hands on initially because Maple was so week and I didn’t want her to have a set-back.

          With Shrimp and Squid, it might pay to work on just them together. Even if just putting in a washing basket and stroking your hands over both, swapping hands to transfer scent somewhat. I think after a rabbit has been ill and handled a lot, they smell a bit different and that could cause some of the non-acceptance.

          During the playtime, is it in their habitat or a different area? Are there things that trigger the chasing ie. territoriality over litterbox or hiding places?

          Should i keep trying to fix the bond between the three (and if i do how am i going to make sure she gets enough to eat) or should i take her away from Squid and Noodle and get her a new mate that would match with her extremely timid personality?

          I honestly love this idea because another rabbit gets a new home. It really depends on whether youre able to take on another. And prepared for housing 2 pairs separately. (They can become messy when living in close proximity!) Even better would be another little bun that is recovered from tilt.


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            Shrimp is pretty much fully recovered but she needs to put on a little more weight, shes not a brilliant eater which i never had noticed before because the other girls had eaten it for her. My biggest worry aside from them actually getting on is if theyd let her eat.
            If its nice out they have playtime in the garden on the grass but theres no particualar area that Squid should be so protective over so i couldnt tell you whats triggering her to attack. If i can fix their bond and theyd be happy with that then id rather do that than take on another (even though its so tempting to take on a bunny that would need me, i can only do so much ) I’ll try to give Shrimp and Squid some alone time to reacquaint and go from there

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