I know just how you feel, my jasper went to vet in jan as he had tumor on his testical, he also died under anasitic, I left him trusting he would be coming home he didn’t I was devastated, had him 8 years, its awful when this happens, vet said he would be fine, I was worried he was to old for anasitic. Such a shock, still is. Try to give your other bunny as much love and attention as you can, its very sad and upsetting. X

Oh dear poor Theo he’s probably wondering where Daisy is, it must be a shock for him too suddenly loosing his partner, funny I felt same with Jasper we looked into each others eye’s he new he’d never see me again, I didn’t sleep all night just new something was going to go wrong, when my vet called in morning I just new he’d died, I’ve been so I’ll since this happened can’t forgive my self for leaving him there without me, its so hard, keep close eye on Theo he needs lots of love at moment, my heart breaks with such sad news. Take care

First I am sorry for your loss of Daisy. We lost our little girl a little over 3 months ago. Very, very hard. You had to take her in to have the tumor removed. There is no two ways about it. Shouldn’t feel guilty about any of that. It would have been wrong to let her suffer. These unfortunate things happen all too often. It will be tough picking up the ashes. It was for me. But it was and is nice to have what was left of them, back with you. And I think with us it helped with the closure to some degree.

As far as Theodore. Continue to watch him close like you are doing. Give him extra attention. Some rabbit companions have a rough go of it while others get through the loss of their bonded bunny without any problem. There may be some behavior changes as a part of confusion or anxiety or whatever is going on with him while he adjusts to her not being around anymore. I think as long as he continues to eat, drink, and poop like usual he should be okay. Our bunny was by herself, not bonded with another. Hopefully there are others here who have had the exact experience of what you are going through and can give more specific advice.

You, Theodore, and little Daisy are in my thoughts…

Binky free sweet {{{Daisy}}}

Hi Lauren I just wanted to say make sure Theo is eating ok, just checked the advise they all say is if bonded bunny doesn’t pick up, try another bunny to keep him company, hope it all goes ok x

Great sounds good, give him some extra treats, if he feels sad x

I’m so sorry about your bun. Please don’t feel guilty. As it was a tumor, the operation was absolutely necessary and getting her medical treatment was the right thing to do. I agree with G&J and Phil that if Theo shows changes in eating, pooping, or energy levels, it would be in his best interest to be bonded with another bun. And if he is ready for another bun friend before you are, remember that you both loved Daisy, and having another bun in your life can’t take that love you gave her away .

Binky free Daisy

I’m very sorry about the loss of Daisy. You were doing the right thing to have the vet remove the tumor. There is nothing for you to feel guilty about. Spend as much time as possible with Theo. If he’s not a chewer, you could put a stuffed toy rabbit with him. It might be comforting for him to cuddle with it. Then when you are ready, you can think about getting another companion for him. That would not be replacing Daisy, it would be helping two rabbits to have a friend.

I’m so sorry to hear about the loss of your dear Daisy and I grieve along with you, having lost a precious bunny just a few months ago. I echo what the others have said that you did the right thing getting the care she needed. Sending you positive energy and hoping that you and Theo get through this together.

Been feeling very sad today, how’s Theo doing. Its so heartbreaking to hear of our wonderful bunnies we love so much not here with us anymore, I miss my Jasper more everyday, and wish it was all a bad dream, its so hard. ?

hi my bunny friend i just found out my 12 yr old midnite may have liver cancer i am so devestated. i feel so bad for you. i can just imagine what i will be like when the times comes. but this is a great place with wonderful bunny people.

hi my bunny friend i just found out my 12 yr old midnite may have liver cancer i am so devestated. i feel so bad for you. i can just imagine what i will be like when the times comes. but this is a great place with wonderful bunny people.

hi my bunny friend i just found out my 12 yr old midnite may have liver cancer i am so devestated. i feel so bad for you. i can just imagine what i will be like when the times comes. but this is a great place with wonderful bunny people.

hi my bunny friend i just found out my 12 yr old midnite may have liver cancer i am so devestated. i feel so bad for you. i can just imagine what i will be like when the times comes. but this is a great place with wonderful bunny people.

hi my bunny friend i just found out my 12 yr old midnite may have liver cancer i am so devestated. i feel so bad for you. i can just imagine what i will be like when the times comes. but this is a great place with wonderful bunny people.

Arr he’s probably very sad too loosing his little companion, great he ate dandelions, jasper loved them too, its so hard to cope with all this I still can’t sleep myself, you take care, love to Theo and you too.

That’s very sad, what a wonderful age 12 years is amazing, my bunny jasper got to 8 he had cancer too, its awful

Me too, be thinking of Theo and you, its very tough. X

I would make sure he has treats left for him, is anyone able to pop and check on him, he will prob be ok for few hrs.

Had to really force myself back to work, all I could think about and still do is my Jasper, it doe’s help a bit, we all worry about our buns I got paranoid if jasper didn’t do poops at same time every day. I couldn’t wait to get home every day to be with him, now I hate going home at all, its awful. Try not to worry about Theo to much he sounds a great little bunny x

He knows how much you love him, I’m not supprised you haven’t accepted Daisy going so your bound to be very worried about Theo, I’m sure he will be ok sounds an amazing little bunny.

Was wondering how Theo is today, hope he’s not so sad, I’ve been pritty bad today as last time I saw Jasper was on a Friday at 2.45 hate Fridays, seems only yesterday can’t belive its 3 months.

Arr that’s great news about Theo, I still haven’t got Jaspers ashes back as the thought is very upsetting. Went to pet store today to see baby bunnies cheered me up a bit. X

Yes I think ile have bring jasper home, it will be very hard for me all that’s left of my darling bunny is ashes, funny seeing other bunnies gives me comfort there all so sweet, I’d feel bad getting a new bunny as ile always think its my Jasper x

I know lifts my spirits they are such adorable animals, it took me over a year to get Jasper after loosing my previous bunny Fluffy, I even felt guiilty getting Jasper, but I was so glad I did as he was so amazing, and I don’t think ile ever find one as loving and friendly as he was. Even though they are all so sweet. X

I’m not sure at moment. Probably get a baby dwarf lop, same breed as jasper, most rescues only let you have to bunnies I just want one, too much to worry about with two of them

I can imagine Jasper was so full of energy 90 miles an hr around my flat so amazing. He was always so healthy till the end, beautiful breed of bunny, miss him so much. X

No its not I feel same about jasper, didn’t know id never see him again when he died at vets, should have been there with him didn’t say goodbye or show him how much I always loved him. X

I know, we had to trust vet to save our bunnies, everyone tells me I did what was best, I can’t really accept what happened, its such a shock, what choice did we have, couldn’t leave them to suffer, how’s Theo today x

That’s great Theo probably wonders why he’s getting so much attention. I still think one bunny is better we can form closer bond with them, I still don’t understand how bunnies can die from anasetic mine said jadpers op was very straight forward, don’t know what went wrong bothers me so much still.

Yes I’d have them all when I got jasper his brother was so sweet too hard drssision, jasper would have been in pain too after op. X

How’s Theo doing? I’ve been looking at adopting a new bunny but their just not my Jasper, its so upsetting

Its funny bunnies must act same as us. loosing their little friend. I feel annoyed and upset and grumpy too. Waves of doubt frustration every day. X

Feel the same got hundreds of pics of Jasper so like he should be here still. its s hard everyday

Lauren, don’t feel like you’re “replacing” Daisy, there’s no way you can replace a lost pet. And you don’t have to be in a hurry to get a new baby. Just know if you do get a new baby, it will be its own little self. I know last time I had a bonded pair and one of them died, I considered getting another friend for my remaining bunny. However, she had quite an attitude and didn’t even always get along with the sister she was bonded with–never any real fights, but little dust ups. Because of that and the fact that she most likely had a bacterial infection (which took her sister and would pop back out when under stress), I decided to let her be a lone rabbit for her last 5 years. When my most recent bunny Betty was euthanized, I said (at that instant) that I would NEVER have another bunny. But I watched videos of her and it further made me realize that I LOVE having bunnies. My life just doesn’t seem complete without a sweet little bunny. I’m glad that you do still have Theo, give him lots of attention and allow both of you to go through the grieving process without being hard on yourself. I too often second guess my decisions, but that really doesn’t do any good, especially when you did everything possible.

I think when time is right to get another bunny we will know, i still cant accept jasper has gone yet, once I do that’s when to get new bunny, its to soon for me and you little Daisy hasn’t been gone long. I’d love Theo and he will be fine on his own till your ready x

Hi Lauren how’s Theo doing, I found a new bunny mini lop, lady’s keeping him for me as I’m still a bit dubious, should be ok I hope, gonna call him Clover.

Hi Lauren, I feel same just been cleaning out Jaspers cage and things, ready for Clover, I still feel very apprehensive, feel I’m betraying Jaspers home to another bunny, made me so upset, I can’t sleep I feel very sad, where’s my little Jasper I keep thinking.

Its very difficult when anyone loses a friend, (All pets are our friends) but we loved them, so they stay in our hearts forever, I have lost many pets over the years, I still love them, just yesterday on the phone I was talking to my partner and we were talking about pets leaving us, I told him I still remember my goldfish I had a few years ago, it still makes me cry a little when I remember my goldfish, its OK for anyone to cry and feel sad.

Hang in there Lauren. Good days and bad days, better days and bad days. Wishing your more and more good days in between the bad and a speedy healing process.

{{{Hugs}}}

Hi Lauren try not to worry about Theo, I know how you feel I haven’t even got Clover yet and I’m worried he’ll be ok, think its such a shock loosing our bunnies, thats why we get scared.