I thought it might be interesting and helpful to have a thread where we can talk about our bonded rabbits and how they behave towards one another. I think so many of us expect bonded pairs to be super snuggly 100% of the time so it’d be interesting to see just how different each pair (or trio, quad etc) can be I think this will be helpful particularly for those new to bonding too.
For my pair – they are quite a snuggly pair (see my instagram if you want evidence ) They do spend a large portion of their lounging time bun loafed, laying and flopped together. They like to be very close most of the time, and often are pressed up against each other. They also like to have a little time apart – I think this is more for Buttercup’s benefit. I’d say during lounge time, they probably spend 70% within close proximity and 30% apart (but in the same room)
Sounds perfect right? Well, they still have issues occasionally. A recent switch in dominance after a December slump and things are wonderful *touch wood* I believe the slump was because Buttercup groomed Peanut all the time and he just barely reciprocated. We got them over the slump, they still don’t groom each other much but there doesn’t seem to be any tension between them now. I think they are quite happy just grooming themselves lol.
I think Buttercup is an absolute angel, Peanut is the trouble maker He used to have this annoying habit of digging at Buttercup when he wanted her to move. Then he decided he wanted to sniff her rear and dig at her bum whenever he was excited lol. Buttercup did not appreciate this and would ‘chase’ him off sometimes. By chase, I mean a few steps at normal pace. Sometimes Peanut would chase her for a sniff. Whenever they ‘caught’ each other, they’d just sit side by side He eventually grew out of that habit. Nowadays, he’s a nipper! He nips Buttercup’s bum when he’s excited for food. Whenever I walk over to the food table, they both run around in circles, around my feet but Peanut will nip her until I put the food down. The terror. He doesn’t nip at any other time. Buttercup just runs out of the way and then comes back for the food. This behaviour concerned me before because it was new but it’s been going on for a couple of months now and shows no signs of escalating. I think Peanut is just becoming more and more confident and seeing what he can get away with lol. Buttercup isn’t distressed by it.
Positive behaviours that my pair show:
-Bun loaf, lay and flop together
-Seek each other out to snuggle with
-Share the litter box
-Share hay
-They’ll take foods out of the others mouth and aren’t bothered
-Occasionally groom each other
Not so positive:
-They don’t groom each other as much but there doesn’t seem to be any tension
-Peanut nipping
-The occasional uneventful chase
Would anybody else like to talk about their bonded pair? I think it’s important to remember that no pair is perfect, there’s never going to be a couple that are completely ‘by the book perfect’ and that’s okay!