I’m sorry to hear your turmoil Jordan! Hopefully BB members can help sort these stressors out. Can you specify what behaviors you’re seeing? When rabbits have a sudden change in behavior, the top three reasons are usually 1) hormones, 2) feeling ill/in pain, or 3) change in environment (scent, people, routine, etc). It could be one, two, or all three reasons!
Your rabbit is around sexual maturity age, but considering her sneezing, it’s good to consider whether or not her health could be severely bothering her that she’s become more hostile, withdrawn, or whatever behaviors you’re observing. How are her poops, energy level, and appetite?
If the behaviors are hormonal, yes, spaying will reduce them. When hormones hit, all a rabbit thinks about it mating and territory, so a lot of unwanted, though natural behaviors surface. Getting a rabbit fixed (great job staying on top of that) will dissipate the hormones.
Healthy females are important for spays, as a spay is more invasive than a neuter, so if your rabbits immune system is currently fighting a respiratory infection, not doing a spay is not surprising.
If it’s hormonal, remember she still loves you and her judgement is simply clouded by her natural instincts. Wick was a complete jerk to his other parent approaching and the month after his neuter, due to the hormone spike which occurred before the neuter and afterwards. Tensions were very apparent, and frustrations we’re definitely expressed from both Wick and his other parent. Fast forward to now, 7 months after the neuter, and Wick is more loveable than ever!
I’ve never heard of a spay making a female rabbit behave less socially or lose positive qualities of her personality. A spay let’s a female rabbit develop more with you, without dealing with hormonal frustrations.
I hope this information was helpful to you!
The answers provided in this discussion are for general guideline purposes only. The information is not intended to diagnose or treat your pet. Seek the advice of your veterinarian or a qualified behaviorist.