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Forum BONDING Baby bunny dominant over adult rabbit? Help!

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    • bellathebunny
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        Okay I recently got a new bunny named Marshmallow. I went through the whole stage of putting their cages close to each other and everything. My other rabbit, the adult one named Bella, didn’t seem to mind Marshmallow and didn’t really care. Anyways, my family was getting annoyed that they were living in seperate cages even though it’s only been two days. So while I was at school, my dad put Marshmallow into the cage with Bella. I was kind of okay with this because my parents sent me pictures and they seemed to be getting along.

        This is because Bella is really passive and doesn’t really care about anything but food. Mallow from what I can tell is a little more active and affectionate. So apparently Bella chased Mallow around a bit and Mallow was really scared. Then suddenly Mallow probably realised Bella is a big scaredy cat and so she started chasing Bella. Then Bella went and hid on the upper level for like an hour. Half of the upstairs is a removable tray for their litter and when removed, opens up to the lower half of the cage. When Bella later went down, she walked over to sniff Mallow and when Mallow turned around Bella got so scared and jumped up at me, basically kicking my face to get away from Marshmallow and broke out of the cage (doesn’t really matter we let her run around that area anyways). This was because the hutch door was open so that I could look in and stop any fights. 

        The only time Bella actually asserted dominance was when she was chasing Marshmallow at the beginning and when Mallow tried to take some food (like I said, that’s all Bella cares about). Point is, shouldn’t an adult rabbit twice the size of the baby rabbit be the dominant one in this relationship? I’m veering more towards Bella being dominant because she’s passive, she’s older and she’s been living in that hutch for a year? Maybe it’s because I feel sorry for her. Three days with a new rabbit and she’s already given up her house because she’s terrified. Well I finally got Mallow out of the cage and definitely won’t let anyone put them in a cage together until they’re bonded. 

        Is there a way to influence which rabbit is the dominant one? I might try and let them both out of the cage and into neutral ground and maybe feed them food so Bella will be just a little bit more aggressive and show Mallow that she can be dominant. Because Mallow doesn’t even seem like she knows what dominance is. She’s just not afraid of Bella because Bella is afraid of her. Anyways will this work? Or should I just let this two month old rabbit be dominant over a three year old rabbit? I don’t know. Pls help


      • Wick & Fable
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          Welcome to BB! With bonding questions, knowing the fixed status of all rabbit parties is essential. I assume Marshmallow, only being 8wo is not fixed, but is Bella fixed? There are many issues with two unfixed rabbits being together, a large one being if one is young, the likelihood of the young one being sexed incorrectly (you were told it’s a she, but it’s actually a he) is a fair possibility, leading to a litter very quickly.

          Frankly speaking, it was extremely irresponsible for your parent to put them together. It shows a genuine lack of understanding of rabbit bonding. It’s not stupidity, as the large majority of people don’t know how much of a process bonding rabbits is unless they are researching how to properly bonded their rabbits, but being “annoyed” that they are housed separately is not a reason to shove them together. Fights can occur.

          They need to stay separated until marshmallow is fixed, and you need to wait one month following so his/her hormones mellow out. If Bella is not fixed, getting her spayed is highly recommended so the bonding is successful, as well as preventing her from developing cancer in later years (highly possible for unspayed females rabbits).

          I recommend both you and your parents read the Bonding information provided on the BUNNY INFO section of this website. It outlines the proper steps and prerequisites of the bonding process, which can take months. If your housing situation does not permit the time, space, dedication, etc for bonding marshmallow and Bella properly, rehoming marshmallow may need to be discussed. I only mention this because again, if your parent was annoyed with two cages, I imagine the idea of swapping territory, developing neutral territory, supervised dates, etc. may be seen as superfluous and unnecessary when it isn’t; it’s very necessary. Marshmallow is very young, so his/her hormones are not fully developed. When they do, hormonal behaviors which can cause serious fights can occur in a split second, which is why separation is required.

          Other users will be able to chime in with their recommendations and advice as well. Generally, dominance is whatever the rabbits decide after a healthy bond has been established. Size, age, etc.. don’t matter. Currently, this seems very rushed and may create a lot of stress for Bella. Separation is key.

          I hope you and your parents find the information in the bunny info section helpful in making sure both marshmallow and Bella are happy and healthy, both separately and together. Feel free to ask any more questions!

          The answers provided in this discussion are for general guideline purposes only. The information is not intended to diagnose or treat your pet. Seek the advice of your veterinarian or a qualified behaviorist.


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            I agree with everything Wick said. At this point, it is unlikely that the little one is trying to establish dominance. Bella was chasing Marshmallow because there is a new bunny in her territory. Females are notoriously aggressive about their space. Just putting a new bun in her space was probably startling to her. Marshmallow, being new, was probably scared, which is why she chased back. At 8 weeks old, she can stress very easily, which can create a life threatening illness. She really needs to be allowed to settle without Bella being around. If neither one are fixed, hormones are also at play, and that is a very dangerous combination. Bunnies can and will fight to the death. Right now, the only thoughts on their minds are fight and breed.

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