Loosely from personal experience, I advise being confident and firm with your pick up. Wick doesn’t care about pick ups or staying above ground anymore. Your rabbit is going to squirm, but be committed to keep her still. When she feels that security she’ll feel better. Remember it’s not that she’s being picked up that’s freaking her out, it’s that she doesn’t feel stable and she’s not in control of her movements. It’s important that you show and demonstrate confidence and stability, even if she’s scrambling around. It’s especially important she gets the drops, so if it means grabbing at her for 5min, it’s better than not doing the drops for her health. Wick is currently going through topical treatment for his fungal infection. I let him wiff the medicine bottle before I grab him so he gets a heads up. Then, when I go to grab him, he usually tries to run off because he knows what’s coming, but I literally grab him with both hands while he’s running to replace him in front of me. I don’t freak out or let go while his legs are moving around in my hands. I just do it and that sense of stability helps him calm down through the treatment. I think inherently all rabbit owners know to be gentle, so even when you’re firm, I doubt you’ll break bones or bruise you’re pet. Most injuries come from the rabbit being able to flail around from an insecure hold.
If you’re wearing a longer/looser shirt, or if you’re wearing a cardigan or sweater, taking the fabric and wrapping it over her hind section while in your arms may help. She needs to feel stable. For a sweater, just drape it over. For a shirt, I literally take the bottom of my shirt and lift it to cover Wick when I feel he needs more stability, so I’m flashing my belly button to the world, haha.
It’s good to have positive association with pick up and put down. After a pick up put down experience, a small treat or food goody will help build a better association.
The answers provided in this discussion are for general guideline purposes only. The information is not intended to diagnose or treat your pet. Seek the advice of your veterinarian or a qualified behaviorist.