Regarding the original question, I would think the best way to decide is to monitor their weight and poops to make sure they are getting enough fiber. I know with my two, their poops get darker and smaller when they aren’t eating as much hay, or when they hay is richer and softer (orchard grass vs. timothy, for example).
I would treat the grass as a part of their “leafy green” category, since it’s fresh and full of moisture.
I think of pellets as a multivitamin for them. I believe the oxbow bag says 1/4 cup per 4 lbs, but some bunnies gain weight on this amount, and don’t eat enough of their hay this way. Also remember, pellet companies want to sell pellets! So they will always give generous portions as recommendations.
I tend to feed abut 1/4 cup for my 9 lb bun, so in line with what others are saying about 1/8 cup. If you weigh your bunnies you should be able to calibrate how much they need to stay stable.
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