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Hi all please help i am hysterical and have cried for hours on end. I am fostering rabbits for the RSPCA and this is my first foster. Mum who was found abandoned with her 3 beautiful 3 week old babies. i have cared for them and obsessed over them for 2 weeks. one of them has always been the smallest of the 3 and she hasnt really grown, her ears are tiny. she was my favourite as she was so vulnerable and small. last night i put them to bed topped up their hay covered their run etc all as normal and this morning the smallest my baby whom i adore was dead on her side in the run. no injuries, eyes open and i am unconsolable and broken hearted. i cant cope with how sad and heartbroken i am. i followed all the rules and before bed last night she was eating her hay and happy as ever. she has always been quiet and when i let them out she doesnt play like the others and she loves cuddles. my hear is in bits. what has happened. the RSCPA say this is common and she was the runt of the litter. im in bits. mum seems to be hopping around looking for her, but other than that others seem ok. if anyone can console me..i feel i wont ever mend my broken heart
I’m so sorry, I wish there was something I could say that would help you- unfortunately this is the terrible part of caring for these beautiful creatures ?. They are so delicate, even the grown ones, and they hide illness because they are prey animals. I just lost a rabbit myself- I understand how you feel.
Please know that there was nothing you could have done- you have obviously taken great care of the bunnies and are very dedicated to them. The little rabbit may have had a heart defect, which I’ve heard of being a cause for sudden death, or some other problem that caused this. Try to focus on the fact that the baby didn’t seem to suffer, and that you made her life happy and full of love. I’ve been trying to remind myself lately, because I’ve been upset that my rabbit didn’t live a long life, that the present is what matters to animals. They only know that they are happy- humans are the ones that focus on time. That has helped me a little.
For all the joy our bunnies bring us, this is the heartbreak that goes alone with it. You sound like a wonderful bunny parent,and I hope you keep fostering them, because people like you are needed to care for the many rabbits that need homes. Again, I’m so sorry for your loss ?.
Unfortunately it is quite common for little ones to pass. Doesn’t mean you did anything wrong. Try and find comfort in the fact that you had such love for her and she was loved from the start. Can’t imagine how you are feeling
Binky on little one xxx
thank you for replying dee. i have cried more today then i ever have for a relative who has died, and feel responsible, or if not responsible that MAYBE just maybe i could have done something. I loved her so much BECAUSE she was the smallest and most helpless. The fact she died there without me and seeing her this morning i cannot deal with. She was the most adorable rabbit ever. My heart is literally aching for her to be alive again.
I am so sorry to hear about your rabbit also how old was she/he? i need to stay strong for the other 2 babies and mum but i cant function, cant eat, and cant stop sobbing
thank you sarah, my hear is broken right now xx
I am SO sorry this has happened. I know how you feel. I rescued a bunny for the first time last week. She was beautiful, gentle, perfect in my eyes. She passed from her injuries this past Sunday. I cried and cried until my husband came home from work (rushed to get home). I didn’t sleep for two nights. I cry just thinking of her. Be KIND to yourself. You have been a perfect and doting caregiver to this mum and her babies. It is unfortunately something that happens although we never think it can happen to the ones we care for. Take some time. Maybe do a remembrance photo and pick out a spot in your yard. Plant something beautiful in spring near the spot and you will always be able to think fondly of how much she was LOVED.
Thank you livie.I’m sorry to hear you have also lost a beautiful bun.I literally have sobbed none stop.iv even tried resusatating her all day thinking she was perfectly fine last night.she was very small compared to her siblings but aye well.she was my absolute angel and I cannot cope she has just died so instantly. I hope and pray she didn’t suffer ??
I can so completely relate to how you feel. It really is devastating to lose a rabbit- they are just such amazing creatures and take up such a big space in our hearts. It seems that so many of us question what else we could have done for them, I can’t count how many people have commented that “if only” and “why didn’t I” do this or that… I think it’s because rabbits are so good at hiding illness, we often have no idea what happened, so we end up blaming ourselves. I really do tend to think that your baby bunny died instantly and without pain. If she had a heart defect, that would explain why she was smaller than the others. No matter what, there was really nothing you could have done differently. And yes, the other bunnies do need you, even though I know it’s hard to focus on that when you’re so sad.
My rabbit, Precious, was only about 2 as far as we know. I adopted her after she was taken out of a car and left on the side of the road. Fortunately, a friend of the rabbit shelter’s owner saw her and picked her up. She had also suffered a broken leg at some point. She was such a sweet rabbit and was so happy to be loved. For some reason, she got frequent bouts of gas, and the last time, I treated it like I had before. Sadly, it was more serious than I realised, and the vet I went to sent us to the emergency exotics vet, where we waited for treatment for several hours, and ultimately Precious died of an intestinal obstruction. I’ve really struggled with trying to forgive myself for not bringing her in sooner. So you see, I definitely understand that feeling of regret and disbelief that the rabbit you loved and cared for is so suddenly gone. All we can really do is keep caring for our other pets and try to remember that our rabbits were happy and loved, and that we did the very best we knew how to do. I hope you keep coming here for support and to talk about your other rabbits. This community is so wonderful- I find that the people are so kind and helpful. I’ve learned everything I know about rabbits here, and also gotten through some very tough times with the help of the people here. I am sorry that the reason you first posted was such a sad one, but glad that you found us ☺.
Hi dee thank you for taking the time to reply.I have never cried so many tears in my life.can’t function. The fact she was abandoned in the first place and now she’s died makes my heart break.who could abandon these beautiful rabbits. I thought I could turn theirIves around. But she just wasn’t growing like her siblings. I’m sorry to hear about your rabbit too.they are amazing animals. I have an indoor rabbit also and then the other fosters her mum and siblings but all I want right now is my little sooty back.gentle small girl.I can’t cope
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