So this is not necessarily bonding yet because its pre-bonding, so Mods feel free to move if you think this goes somewhere else.
We just got a new female mini lop. She’s only 9 weeks old (just got her last week!), so she’s not spayed yet. We will get her spayed as soon as she comes of age and only then start the bonding. Meanwhile my old male mini lop is over 8 years old. He’s extremely shy and timid. He hates gets very easily scared, but in general a very sweet bun if you let him do his own thing. I’ve taken him to bunny meetups and while he’s usually just on his own in the corner, I’ve never seen him aggressive or violent towards another bun. My male bunny has an x-pen set up across from her in the living room, but we generally let him run free when we’re home. He hasn’t really ventured to her part of the room yet, although I saw him approach one day and gobble up some hay scraps that fell out of her feeder. She stuck her head out a few times (couldn’t tell if angry or not) and he ran away immediately.
Last night the gf and I were watching Game of Thrones, so we sat at opposite ends of the couch with our bunnies. I handled the old gentlebun. Meanwhile the youngster was super active, sniffing all over on the couch, and wanted to run over. Sce ohe sees the old bun and they sniff each other for a second. I contemplate moving her, but am partly curious to see what she does. The next second she lunges at him and nips at his fur and although I thought my reaction was fast to pull them apart, I already saw a piece fur flying in the air! My gf takes the little prankster back and sits her back on her lap, but within 30 seconds, she comes dashing across the couch towards me ready to attack–I swear I heard a growl too. At that point I decide to put my guy down on the ground so he can go back to roaming the living room as he has free reign but at least be separate.’
I was very startled and surprised she could be so aggressive at a young age. In all our interactions with her she has been sweet and curious. We’ve never been bitten or growled or lunged at even when we accidentally bump into her face while trying to clean up her poos. But I suppose you never know when two buns meet….
Anyhow–what I’m getting at is that are these signs to a problematic relationship? How much better is she going to be after being spayed? I obviously don’t have to worry about bonding until another 3 months, but I want to be prepared. I know getting the male bunny to overcome fear is always going to be a challenge, but facing an aggressive bunny is going to be tough.