I have had Howard (Howie) for almost 8 months now. I adopted her (yes her, she already answered to her name when we found out she was a girl, had been previously named) when she was around a year old. She has been spayed and she’s super active and intelligent and loving. When I first got her, I lived with a roommate with a cat, also female (declawed, spayed, and around 3 yr old). After about 3 weeks of them getting a feel and smell of each other through under the door to my bedroom, and after Howie had established her domaine in my room, I introduced them. They immediately got along famously. Howie held her ground and was actually slightly on the aggressive side, which worked for wolfie (roommates cat) because she needed to be put in her place too. They played and sometimes got annoyed with each other. They were true sisters. Howie has also had experience with other friend’s cats that came to visit and she had no problems with any of them, they were kinda freaked out, but she mostly said hi and kept to herself.
Here is my problem though. I just rescued a 5 month old kitten named Zuko (boy, not yet neutered, claws intact) and he is just the most precious thing. I had been looking for a companion for Howie because I am gone for work everyday and I think she gets lonely, and I knew she got along well with cats. But the problem is, Zuko can mostly just see shapes, but mostly goes off sound and smell. So he’s very tactile, he likes to feel around with his paws and is naturally curious.I’ve only had Zuko for about a week, so he’s still gaining confidence in my home, but now that I am in a studio apartment, there is no separate room for me to keep him in. He’s always trying to reach through the cage to figure out what Howie is, and the one time they briefly mistakenly met, he reached for her to investigate, and she grunted and charged him. I know it will take some time for them to get used to each other, but I’m just wondering if anyone had any advice on how to make this easier on them both? Poor Howie loves her run time, but since I got Zuko, I keep her in the cage most of the time to avoid confrontation.
Sorry for such a long post, I hope someone can help! I want my kiddos to get along!