Hi All!!
I’ve had Casper (male) for a year and a half now. I thought it was time for him to get a bun friend (female) so he went on a few dates at the adoption shelter. He got along very well with one of the gals and the bonder gal said they were already making great progress, though they couldn’t seem to agree on who was going to do the grooming, ha. Another date with Casper and Daisy that went well another day and I decided to adopt her that night.
Casper is a free roam bun with reigns all over the house. He is high energy. Daisy – from what they have told me and from what I’ve noticed so far – is sort of a scared bun, but she is allowing me to pet her.
I was told there are so many ways to try to bond and it’s harder to bond a free roam bun. One option was the Side-by-Side setup, so the night I took them back up I had them set up in the empty guest bedroom, which is a place he’s rarely allowed into. The entire time, Casper was looking for a way to get over the gates and out of the room, and in the early morning he was constantly thumping. There was poopies spread out all over the floor and not in the litterbox. Pretty sure he was a pissed bun, and I ended up just taking him out and giving him his free roam space back. And Daisy has found a corner that she runs to when she hears a noise or I enter the room. She hasn’t opened up to me yet.
So now I don’t know what method to use for bonding these buns. I will be doing the 20 minute bonding session in a small neutral zone later today, but I’m not sure what to do for the rest of the day to get them accustomed to each other.
TL;DR: My free roam bun was very displeased with the Side-by-Side bonding method so I let him back out while the new bun is still in her new area. What methods should I try?