It’s normal to be worried when your bun is about to have surgery =)
You don’t fast a bunny, they should eat up to an hour or so before the surgery (an hour is a precaution so they don’t have food in their esophagus when they’re being put under). Send some stuff she really likes with her to the clinic, like her favourite greens and some pellets she likes, you can even add a few treats, because it’s important that she starts eating asap when she wakes up. If you can get Critical Care (many vets sell it), a fine-ground powder that has all nutrients a poorly bunny needs, and a feeding-syringe (without a needle obviously) – that’s great to have on hand for when she comes home. If you can’t get CC, you can soak normal pellets in water instead and make a runny mash.
When she comes home, the major thing is to keep her warm. Hypothermia is a real risk for a bunny that’s had anesthesia. You can use f ex a hot water bottle or a snuggle safe. Make sure she has enough space so she can move away from the heat-source if she wants to. Give her water in a bowl and put it near her, she’ll be pretty out of it and won’t want to go look for water or drink from a bottle.
She’ll be dizzy and wobbly and look miserable at first, but don’t let her go to sleep and sleep through the night without food, there’s a big risk of hypothermia if she does that. The best thing is of course if she starts eating on her own, if she doesn’t, you’ll need to syringe her food. Fresh fragrant herbs like cilantro, mint, parsley can often be of interest even to a bun that’s not feeling so well.
Hopefully your vet gives you a painkiller to distribute at home, but that varies between vets. Some just give a long-lasting shot before the bun gets sent home and schedule a check-up the next day. It is important though that bunnies get a painkiller after a spay, research has shown it helps them heal quicker and that they regain their appetite sooner if they are free of pain.
Don’t hesitate to ask more questions.