Harlow had her first vet appointment yesterday to find out if she was a) healthy and b) old enough to be spayed.
When we first got her, the 25th of last month, she was in with other bunnies and sold to me as a “male”. After picking up a few of her behaviors and checking myself, I found out that she was actually a female. I had told the person ahead of time that I wanted a boy. Because they were selling what they had left from their “breeding stock” I have no idea if they really thought she was a girl, or if they just wanted me to take her home. from what i could tell, they didn’t separate based on sex but breed. The had harlequins, lionheads, and another group of lionheads all of which were white so I’m assuming they weren’t in the same litter Harlow was.
After Harlow started pulling out her fur 2 weeks after getting her, you guys quickly helped me understand that this was a sign of false or actual pregnancies. She has not pulled out a lot, a few tufts here and there, but it was enough to make me worry.
The vet gave her the okay to be spayed, and then told me that there was a possibility she could be pregnant. I haven’t had her a full month, and she was informed about the fur, so when she checked she said it was hard to tell but she felt something move so there is a pretty good chance that she could be pregnant. And if I don’t want the babies then she could get spayed to “fix the problem”.
She said because i haven’t had her a full month, if she is pregnant, she would be having babies within the next week/ week and a half.
if she isn’t, hair pulling could be a result of stress.
Heres my dilemma!
I’m not sure what to do. if she is pregnant, i would have a huge guilt for killing her babies as they are innocent lives that could go to amazing homes and live happy bunbun lives.
i’m also inexperienced, only owning my first bunny for 3 weeks.
But i would have the money to properly care for them.
There would be enough room as i’m ordering her C&C cage parts this week online, and she will be out of the pet store cage she is currently in.
my moms boyfriend (we live in his house) would be unbelievably mad.
And the biggest one is death. There is a chance that she could pass during or after being spayed. Because this would be her first litter, if i am correct i believe there is a chance that she or her babies could pass with the birth. if i get her spayed and she dies, then i wouldn’t be giving life a chance. if i let her have the babies, at least i’d feel comfort knowing that i did the best i could for the babies and Harlow.
im sorry this is so long, i’m just really worried and i have to make such a big decision so soon.