Andi JR will give you my email address since you have problems with PMs. I have had problems with BB on and off myself but apparently not as bad as you have been having. I can imagine that is annoying at times.
As for the move things are up in the air atm. Its a wait and see situation. my husband said there was 2 jobs open at the main office which is about 3 and half hours away so its not that bad. It will be a doable drive with all our pets. The problem is they might want my husband to stay at the current location because no one here knows how to do his job. If we do stay we are still planning to move to a town closer or to another job all together. My husband is stressed because he is the only one at his current location that knows how to do the job at its really getting to him.
It will be weird to move away from my son, but its not that bad of a drive so we can visit still. Right now it takes us 3 to 3 and half hours to get to our family’s homes. We are use to drives like that. Our family is pretty supportive about the move either way.
We are both excited at the prospect of moving but its also kind of scary and of course stressful trying to figure out things. One positive thing is they are more than likely going to give us time to sell our home before going to the new job. We had to sell our last house in a hurry to get to this job and that was really stressful.
Thanks everyone for your imput. Hopefully things work out and we wont even have to rent.