I only have one bun, but I’m hoping to eventually adopt a girlfriend for him, so I’ve been doing some research. Hopefully, someone else with direct experience will chime in. I’d also recommend checking out the “Bonding” forum and reading Binky Bunny’s article on it: https://binkybunny.com/BUNNYINFO…fault.aspx
As far as the gender goes, although many sources say that males and females bond easier, I’ve heard of many successful same sex rabbits pairs. Both will have to be fixed, though, even two of the same gender. Males, in particular, can fight, and it can take a month for their hormones to die down.
The breed of the rabbits doesn’t matter! I probably wouldn’t get a second rabbit that varied in size significantly from yours (I’m thinking a of a bigger size difference than a mini rex and netherland dwarf), but only because they can fight during the bonding process. But I’m sure there are members here who have bonded rabbits of different sizes.
I can’t answer the litter box question for certain, though I think I have heard of bonded rabbits sharing litter boxes before. However, he or she will have to have his own litter box, at least for a while, because they won’t be able to live together right away.
Unfortunately, not all rabbits chew on the same things, so you may have to do some additional bunny proofing.
I would recommend looking at rabbits from a shelter or rabbit rescue. In most cases, they’re already spayed or neutered and are often litter trained. They sometimes let you bring your current rabbit for “speed dating,” so that he can pick out the rabbit he best gets along with. Since bonding rabbits can be tricky, it can be helpful to have your rabbit’s input. Also, you’ll already have a sense of the rabbit’s personality, so if chewing is a concern for you, you can pick one out who’s less of a chewer. Of course, not everyone is able to or chooses to adopt a second rabbit from a shelter, so that’s not a necessity. Just something to look at!
Best of luck! By the way, I absolutely love mini rexes.