Both bunnies are unspayed females, but are different breeds (Himalayan and Dutch) and Bunkey is a bit older. I adopted both when they were kits, Bunkey in August 2012 and Nibbles in April 2013.
I attempted to introduce Nibbles to Bunkey when I first got her, but Bunkey became aggressive and Nibbles sustained a minor scratch. Since Bunkey was sexually mature and Nibbles was only a kit, I separated them and Nibbles matured separately.
When Nibbles reached adulthood, I re-introduced the two bunnies and began the bonding process.
I started by allowing them to observe and smell each other through boundaries such as see-through doors and bars and then moved them into a neutral area for one-on-one time.
It has been several months since I began the bonding process. They now live in the same room, but take turns running around and being in the cage. While the one bunny roams, the other is in the cage and vice versa. I switch them daily so that each bunny gets ample time outside the cage. I made this decision because the bonding is not going well and I fear that unsupervised interaction may lead to an injury.
Firstly, Nibbles follows Bunkey around sometimes, which Bunkey does not appreciate. Bunkey can become violent if she is aggravated and then the two Bunnies end up chasing each other around the room and some fur flies. Secondly, they engage in what I call “pet wars”. Each bunny lowers her head, asking to be “petted” by the other. Their heads butt against each other and they shove until Bunkey eventually concedes and grooms Nibbles. The problem here is that Nibbles never grooms back. Nibbles does not seem to know that love should be reciprocated and she has only ever licked me a couple times while Bunkey licks me every day. This again, angers Bunkey.
I desperately want my bunnies to be friends, or at least able to live with each other without any violence. Will spaying them help? Should I spay Bunkey, who shows aggressive tendencies? Do their ages, breeds, genders and the scratch incident have any effect on them not getting along?
Thank you for any advice,
Laura