I’m so sorry you are feeling this way. As a new comer, I can’t offer any insight on how to bond your buns. I am having an equally hard time with my own. All I can say is that I understand your frustration and how upset you are. Just breathe and don’t give up! I’m sure other more insightful and useful people on here will help you if they can! Good luck!!

Have you tried the steps on Tanlover’s website? wheekwheekthump.com

I’m sorry you’re having to deal with this. Bonding can be so stressful and exhausting especially when it’s not going well.

My advice would be keeping them 100% separated if possible. No interaction through barriers/keep them out of each others sight. This gives you a break from all the stress and them some time to “forget” each other. A lot of times once things start going negatively in a bond it keeps getting worse because they start building a negative association with each other. I would say a couple weeks to a month off with no contact. At that point I would re-introduce them in a short neutral area session and see how it goes. They were getting along at one point and making progress so that gives hope!

During the down time I wouldn’t put too much pressure on yourself when it comes to play time. If they have decently sized habitats maybe alternate days so you’re not fretting about having time to let both out. Of course it’s better for them to have daily out of cage time but it’s not going to hurt them to have every other day in the short term.

Give them and yourself a nice break and come back to it. A lot of times the emotions we bring with us into a session can effect it. You giving yourself some time to decompress (from their troubles and your new move) will help.